Spoiled kids

[Duwop]

This coulda been just a post, but I kinda wanted a discussion. ..

People often present spoiled ass kids as a problem. And while I get it... Spoiled kids can be annoying... But TBH, that's some shit I'm legit proud of.

I'm proud and happy my kids got both parents in the house with them in a healthy living environment. I'm proud they got good every day, their own rooms,hella clothes, food. I'm glad they in paid activities, that my daughter is being taught classical dance, that my son has attracted the interest of one of the top wrestling high schools in the state SOLEY due to who his dad knows.

Like they have so many advantages and obstacles removed from their lives...and people really consider them being spoiled to be a hindrance.

Like fuck that.... If you can, spoil your damn kids.. Teach then humility and consideration. Make sure they're good people..... But if you can afford it, I consider it a blessing to be able to spoil their asses.

 

[Inori]

theres a difference between kids that are well taken care of and SPOILED.

When I think of spoiled I think of a kid so used to getting everything they want that when they dont get their way they lose their shit

 

[mryounggun]

^^^^^Nothing in this post says ‘spoiled’ to me. But I know some other people prolly feel differently. Especially when it comes to the dance lessons and shit. But yeah, when I talk about ‘spoiled kids’, none of that shit is what I have in mind.

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

Growing up one my friends and his 2 siblings had a fully staffed mansion next door to their parents mansion —- that’s spoiled

The o/p is just good parenting

 

[John Shippuden]

Like anything, too much of something is a detriment so there just has to be proper balance when spoiling kids

 

[Duwop]

I'm all for my kids having advantages I can personally supply. But I find it very insulting when parents who did not place themselves in an optimal parenting situation take issue with what I worked hard to provide my kids with

"Everybody kids not spoiled like yours"

My response be like.....

..................." Bitch "

 

[BlackRain]

Funny i was having a similar discussion last week that was close to this topic. Why people think that somehow without struggle a person can't value good things in their lives? Like struggling must be part of life in order to actually know what is good and what isn't. Giving your kids advantages ain't spoiling them at all. Kids shouldn't have to struggle or go without in order to appreciate good things their parents give them.

 

[Tayboo]

I never understood the concept of humbling your kids. One of the reasons I work as hard as I do is make sure that my kids are well taken care of. Struggling is not the only way to build character.

 

[Duwop]

Not gonna lie. I'm still strongly considering taking the stage one day, and I have a whole joke written out about how I fucked my kids up by being to of a parent.

I feel like kids bed a certain level of trauma in their lives to have a sense of morality.

And just start introducing acceptable options...

Like I think actually beating my wife would be od..... But if I like purposely got caught cheating.... Like look, Daddy isn't perfect, Mom might be a bit violent when pushed far enough...

Like there's never a GOOD reason for cheating.... But this kinda would be for my kids

 

[Dwayne]

had to humble my oldest.

Shrugs