What was promised to him by the patriarchy. To be the best version of himself as far as who he thinks he is and it will allow him to have the girl of his dreams. Same kinda shit white supremacy promises white people.
Hate this group of people with me. Allow me to mistreat and victimize them and they will never be superior to you and you will always have a pathway to success.
But as you can see the more they buy into it, the less they have and all they end up with is their hate. Because to let it go would lead them to own up to the fact that they were manipulated and lied to.
And that success requires you to get it out the mud by owning who you are, where you are, and what you do. Only then can you accept what resources you have and live with the means of what you can do. The universe might provide better, but at the very least. You will be able to be content and happy.
What he wants is what was promised to him by music and film. That if he acts like a man, a prince, a king, a damsel in distress will fuck with him, and he’ll have his pick as a high value man.
What he got was the reality that women are just as human as him. And they want shit too. He needs to take them off the pedestals and allow them to be flawed. Go out a find a woman that thinks like him, they are out there. Maybe not in mass like he wants, but they exist. They may not be Beyoncé but they will be what he needs