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Spin Off: The effects of Bad Dating Decisions

Ghost313 said:
I found a way to tell it bluntly.

Good friend of mine got married at 19 to her HS boyfriend. They make it in their careers, his being really lucrative. Husband treats her well, respects her, bought her a new E Class on their 3rd year of marriage, nice house in Nashville, paid off her student loans, helped her lil sister start her own lawn care business. She started screwing her husband's homie behind the husband's bac. She says she had never been...fulFILLED by the husband the way she is by the best friend. Shorty gets pregnant, leads the husband on to believe it's his until her sister tells the husband the truth. Baby comes, DNA test is done, and it's the best friend's baby. Best friend says I've had my fun FDB, husband filed for divorce. Shorty is now raising the child by herself, and the best friend still hasn't seen the child 4 years later.
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Damn!!!

If the female was unhappy or not fulfilled why didn’t she just tell him her issues before cheating on him or get a divorce from her husband?

Stupid! So damn stupid. Smh
 
#1hiphopjunki3 said:
Damn!!!

If the female was unhappy or not fulfilled why didn’t she just tell him her issues before cheating on him or get a divorce from her husband?

Stupid! So damn stupid. Smh
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Not caping for my homie, but that's easier said from the outside. I actually told her the same shit. I feared that dude was gonna murk her ass. But she still cared about homie, plus she was greedy, wanted to keep her lifestyle and the side nigga too. Cheating is bad, but with the niggas homie, that was beyond foul. Great pussy has clouded many men's sane judgement as well.
 
Ghost313 said:
I found a way to tell it bluntly.

Good friend of mine got married at 19 to her HS boyfriend. They make it in their careers, his being really lucrative. Husband treats her well, respects her, bought her a new E Class on their 3rd year of marriage, nice house in Nashville, paid off her student loans, helped her lil sister start her own lawn care business. She started screwing her husband's homie behind the husband's bac. She says she had never been...fulFILLED by the husband the way she is by the best friend. Shorty gets pregnant, leads the husband on to believe it's his until her sister tells the husband the truth. Baby comes, DNA test is done, and it's the best friend's baby. Best friend says I've had my fun FDB, husband filed for divorce. Shorty is now raising the child by herself, and the best friend still hasn't seen the child 4 years later.
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Ex-husband probably living his life like it's golden somewhere...

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Ghost313 said:
Not caping for my homie, but that's easier said from the outside. I actually told her the same shit. I feared that dude was gonna murk her ass. But she still cared about homie, plus she was greedy, wanted to keep her lifestyle and the side nigga too. Cheating is bad, but with the niggas homie, that was beyond foul. Great pussy has clouded many men's sane judgement as well.
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The lifestyle part sounds more honest than carin about him. Lmao. I hate when people do B.S. but always try to soften it with saying stuff like that. If you care about a person you aren’t going to do what she did and (like you stated) with who she did it with.

The funny thing is stuff like this is normal. People cheat all the time with their spouses friends or family members because it initially starts off with confiding issues to them instead of doing so with the spouse or significant other.

Lack of honest communication. Smh.
 
I think the bigger issue is staying with the person than picking them.

I see it so often. People would be in a bad relationship and instead of leaving, they stay. Many reasons why. Sometimes they in love, scared to be alome, financial decision, etc.

Almost always leaving is way easier than people think. It might take time getting over it, or take time getting back on your feet, but when you do get over it, you start fresh.

Too many times I see toxic relationships, and im just like damn, why doesnt someone just leave?

Trying to make it work for the kids is the only justifiable reasons, other than that I cant imagine being in an unhappy relationship regardless of how much I "love" my girl
 
Ghost313 said:
she was greedy, wanted to keep her lifestyle and the side nigga too.
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I think that's the crucial part. If it was about being filled by the husband she would have done something about it. She liked getting filled by the next man.

'Fucked up her fo sho mans trying to get mo mans and now she got no mans'
 
#1hiphopjunki3 said:
The lifestyle part sounds more honest than carin about him. Lmao. I hate when people do B.S. but always try to soften it with saying stuff like that. If you care about a person you aren’t going to do what she did and (like you stated) with who she did it with.

The funny thing is stuff like this is normal. People cheat all the time with their spouses friends or family members because it initially starts off with confiding issues to them instead of doing so with the spouse or significant other.

Lack of honest communication. Smh.
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You're right, I may be caping hard for my homie, lol. She was foul foul foul AF, but that's my dawg.

Bruh, I had no idea how common cheating while married was until I lived In the south. Shit is common like going to see a football game
 
ChicagoFigure said:
I think a lot of mistakes come from people rushing into relationships for fear of being lonely. If ur talkin to someone who just came out of a long term relationship best believe theyre not ready for a new one.
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My oldest niece (23 years old) was the epitome of this. All her friends had kids & in relationships. She used to cry to the moon on FB that she want to be with someone & behappy. One day, I checked her face to face about her lonely statuses. I told her "stop worrying about being in a relationship & go accomplish your goals in life while you young & don't have kids". She didn't take my advice, cool. About 2 years later, she got pregnant with twins. Now she be feeling doleful on FB & told me "uncle, don't have kids until you're ready. It's a hassle" smdh
 
Ghost313 said:
Damn, I agree.

I think ppl get caught up with up superficial things easily. As I've stated before, I have a friend who broke up with a woman due to her lacc of Ass. The woman complimented him on so many levels and their chemistry was great. But he threw it away because her booty was kinda flat. Same nigga is lonely , buying escorts now.

I have a female friend that has a similar story, but it's a bit too uncomfortable for me to discuss.
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Nigga had a good one an left cuz no cakes? Niggas literally stupid.
 
Ghost313 said:
I found a way to tell it bluntly.

Good friend of mine got married at 19 to her HS boyfriend. They make it in their careers, his being really lucrative. Husband treats her well, respects her, bought her a new E Class on their 3rd year of marriage, nice house in Nashville, paid off her student loans, helped her lil sister start her own lawn care business. She started screwing her husband's homie behind the husband's bac. She says she had never been...fulFILLED by the husband the way she is by the best friend. Shorty gets pregnant, leads the husband on to believe it's his until her sister tells the husband the truth. Baby comes, DNA test is done, and it's the best friend's baby. Best friend says I've had my fun FDB, husband filed for divorce. Shorty is now raising the child by herself, and the best friend still hasn't seen the child 4 years later.
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Her dumb fucking ass. And the homie wouldve got shot.
 
Ghost313 said:
You're right, I may be caping hard for my homie, lol. She was foul foul foul AF, but that's my dawg.

Bruh, I had no idea how common cheating while married was until I lived In the south. Shit is common like going to see a football game
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Would you smash?
 
:shrug3:I’m attracted to personality and intelligence.

When I met an intelligent woman I become a fucking child because I’m so infatuated
 
AZTG said:
I think the bigger issue is staying with the person than picking them.

I see it so often. People would be in a bad relationship and instead of leaving, they stay. Many reasons why. Sometimes they in love, scared to be alome, financial decision, etc.

Almost always leaving is way easier than people think. It might take time getting over it, or take time getting back on your feet, but when you do get over it, you start fresh.

Too many times I see toxic relationships, and im just like damn, why doesnt someone just leave?

Trying to make it work for the kids is the only justifiable reasons, other than that I cant imagine being in an unhappy relationship regardless of how much I "love" my girl
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Even when they do that then it can become detrimental to the kids because kids can sense an unhappy home & it might effect them outside the home
 
#1hiphopjunki3 said:
Damn!!!

If the female was unhappy or not fulfilled why didn’t she just tell him her issues before cheating on him or get a divorce from her husband?

Stupid! So damn stupid. Smh
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Germs said:
:shrug3:I’m attracted to personality and intelligence.

When I met an intelligent woman I become a fucking child because I’m so infatuated
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@Blactivity I think this will answer any questions you may have.......:host:
 
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