Spin Off: The effects of Bad Dating Decisions

[Ghost313]

We've discussed Blac Women and Men issues with slef hate and dating interracially.

We also make poor choices in selecting potential mates. Often looking past someone good for us, only to regret it down the line.

Please share your thoughts.

 

[5th Letter]

If someone ain’t shit and you see the signs but you ignore them because you think you can change them then that’s your fault.

 

[Ghost313]

If someone ain’t shit and you see the signs but you ignore them because you think you can change them then that’s your fault.

I agree. Some ppl feel that they can save/change ppl and mold them to their liking. A leopard doesn't change it's spots.

 

[Playmaker88]

I wont waste my time watchin that .. the effects multiply when you make bad "dating decisions" From potential kids the strife that is produced from frivolous or impulsive decisions regarding the choice a man and woman may make has life long consequences Not to mention any baggage someone maybe bring with them that you seen and chose to ignore.. Drama can consume and poison every other facet of you life because drama doesnt happen in a vacuum.. Not to mention diseases and things of that nature

 

[Ghost313]

There was an exchange between @King Du and @Goldie about selection choices playing a part in a person being lonely. This thread was partially inspired by that exchange.

 

[Playmaker88]

people wanna put rings on "10" visually but they be 3's as far as character/content

 

[OriginalMan!]

I think its time for another vacation from work

 

[Goldie]

Only 10 secs in, but shorty in the vid looks fuckin amazing for 44.

 

[Ghost313]

people wanna put rings on "10" visually but they be 3's as far as character/content

Damn, I agree.

I think ppl get caught up with up superficial things easily. As I've stated before, I have a friend who broke up with a woman due to her lacc of Ass. The woman complimented him on so many levels and their chemistry was great. But he threw it away because her booty was kinda flat. Same nigga is lonely , buying escorts now.

I have a female friend that has a similar story, but it's a bit too uncomfortable for me to discuss.

 

[LUCIEN]

• Seems like I always had crushes on chicks I couldn't have,
  And then I end up fuckin' with someone I shouldn't have

 

[Ghost313]

Only 10 secs in, but shorty in the vid looks fuckin amazing for 44.

Right! Wouldn't save her, but she can tell me what the 80s was like before I pipe her.

 

[Goldie]

people wanna put rings on "10" visually but they be 3's as far as character/content

That was my thinking in my late teens/early 20s, as long as shorty was bad i was wifing. Now, I take my time and make sure she has both brains and beauty.

 

[Playmaker88]

And those commenting on the chick.. black dont crack unless on crack we know this

 

[OriginalMan!]

I think its time for another vacation from work

Oh shit wrong thread

 

[Goldie]

And those commenting on the chick.. black dont crack unless on crack we know this

Let me drool over this hoe woman in peace

 

[#1hiphopjunki3]

Damn, I agree.

I think ppl get caught up with up superficial things easily. As I've stated before, I have a friend who broke up with a woman due to her lacc of Ass. The woman complimented him on so many levels and their chemistry was great. But he threw it away because her booty was kinda flat. Same nigga is lonely , buying escorts now.

I have a female friend that has a similar story, but it's a bit too uncomfortable for me to discuss.

I want to hear this story about your female friend. Sounds like it might be pretty entertaining. Lol

 

[ChicagoFigure]

I think a lot of mistakes come from people rushing into relationships for fear of being lonely. If ur talkin to someone who just came out of a long term relationship best believe theyre not ready for a new one.

 

[Duwop]

I think people undervalue conversation and overvalue a whole lotta other shit.

Kinda like how dude said everybody wanna wife 10's

Just last night, like 3 different chicks were complaining about being single, none of them bad looking. And they were asking me where they going wrong.

I asked them how often do they talk to people they can just talk to .

They looked confused as shit.

I was like check it relationships are mostly communication. If y'all can't just talk about nuffin and be entertained, then y'all not clicking and it ain't gonna work.

Everything else, looks, money, kids, family, race, age, whatever..... What it really comes down to is how well y'all two individuals get along and communicate with each other....

Starting out at the very least.....


But people routinely ignore that for other shit then complain that the world is full of crappy people and they will be single forever.

I know tons of great people, only because I value the importance of communication.

 

[IP360]

If someone ain’t shit and you see the signs but you ignore them because you think you can change them then that’s your fault.

people wanna put rings on "10" visually but they be 3's as far as character/content

These two here speaking the gospel TROOF!!

 

[Ghost313]

I want to hear this story about your female friend. Sounds like it might be pretty entertaining. Lol

I found a way to tell it bluntly.

Good friend of mine got married at 19 to her HS boyfriend. They make it in their careers, his being really lucrative. Husband treats her well, respects her, bought her a new E Class on their 3rd year of marriage, nice house in Nashville, paid off her student loans, helped her lil sister start her own lawn care business. She started screwing her husband's homie behind the husband's bac. She says she had never been...fulFILLED by the husband the way she is by the best friend. Shorty gets pregnant, leads the husband on to believe it's his until her sister tells the husband the truth. Baby comes, DNA test is done, and it's the best friend's baby. Best friend says I've had my fun FDB, husband filed for divorce. Shorty is now raising the child by herself, and the best friend still hasn't seen the child 4 years later.