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Spanking your kids and other physical punishment. How do you feel about it?

We all got stories of getting whoopings or hit with a spoon or something like that. But nowadays many folks are completely against it. Is it needed or does the black community need to let whoopings and such by the wayside?
 
My parents and their siblings needed it, my siblings and I needed it, my child(ren) will get them if needed, therefore...I feel it's needed.
 
I never got beat downs, just got threatened to get them from time to time. Nothing hurts more than getting all the things you like to do taking away from you, that's the best punishment.

Beatings don't do anything but tell your kid violence is the answer when somebody does something that is wrong .
 
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My siblings and I were wild country kids taking my toys and belongings never worked for me. I could make a toy out of anything and often did..Paper dolls..stick people...lint pets...
Time out was nothing but a break, I'd sit and make up stories and day dream.
And we already had chores and labor to do so that wasn't considered punishment.
The only thing worked on us were whoopings.
 
Only thing that worked for me was a whooping. Only thing besides that was when my mama took my bed and clothes. If she took anything else, I didn't care. My brothers were always willing to come chill in my room when I was on punishment.

However, taking from my son works for him. I rarely spank him. It has to be serious like almost harming himself or something like lying after being caught.
 
Those punishments did wonders on me, taking my tv and video games and having me clean the house from top to bottom and then hearing all your friends outside playing while I was locked up was torture. I swear it felt like prison.
 
Only thing that worked for me was a whooping. Only thing besides that was when my mama took my bed and clothes. If she took anything else, I didn't care. My brothers were always willing to come chill in my room when I was on punishment.

However, taking from my son works for him. I rarely spank him. It has to be serious like almost harming himself or something like lying after being caught.
wait, how did this work? like no bed overnight n not being allowed to wear clothes? that's wild
 
wait, how did this work? like no bed overnight n not being allowed to wear clothes? that's wild
I had to wear uniforms and sleep on the floor. I was being punished for being ungrateful. I was 8 or 9.
 
I remember being a kid in school and parents would be beating their kids in school, I can't even imagine the humiliation of that happening in front of other kids.
I saw this too. the kid happened to be 1 of the most messed up ppl I met. when I saw her parents hitting her in the parking lot, it was clear she was just a product of her home environment.
 
I remember being a kid in school and parents would be beating their kids in school, I can't even imagine the humiliation of that happening in front of other kids.
This happened to a kid in my 4th grade class, he ended up going to jail for burglary and rape
 
We went to school together from preschool up until the 6th grade, you just never know what people are capable of until it happens. His home life didn't help I'm sure.
if thats what they did in public, it begs the question of what they inflict on the kid in the privacy of their home.
 
My parents and their siblings needed it, my siblings and I needed it, my child(ren) will get them if needed, therefore...I feel it's needed.

This.

All for it. If they act up, whoop that azzz. Yeah that shouldn't be the only kinda punishment, but it should be one of them.

Anybody else can miss me wit that psycho babble blah blah about long terms effect, mental state, actin out and, other non-whoopin azzz excuses.

We talkin about child misbehaving. I got my azzz whooped, and I turned out fine. Hell I appreciate my folks for setting me straight. That may not work for every child, but it doesn't mean it won't.
 
I dont care that people spank it just didn't happen to me and I don't do it, there's no right or wrong. You gotta parent how you see fit.
 
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