mryounggun
OG
You're jumping from one extreme to another and ignoring a common middle ground. Not wanting to have your bare ass out doesn't mean you hate yourself. Lizzo didn't get all this negative attention when she was the same size, showing no signs of self loathing, and not showing her ass every chance she got.
I dunno why people have the idea that anything you don't flaunt, you hate. Queen Latifah, Oprah, Monique, and a bunch of other women all hate themselves since we don't see them putting their asses on display.
I'm not jumping to anything, fam.
I'm saying that a group of people exists. Period. I'm not saying YOU are in that group. I'd have no way of knowing that. I'm not one of those people who feel like anything you don't flaunt, you must hate. I understand there are rational people who have a problem with Lizzo or her constant ass shaking because they just find it distasteful for any woman to do it...and there are also people who seem to have an issue with any fat person who doesn't hate themselves.
Like, those are both facts. What are we talking about here?