Singles of ABW: Is a quick connection with someone a 🚩⁉️

[Mr BFK]

All of our chosen relationships are reflections of us.

If it’s someone you hate, it’s because they have something or do something that you either are and repress, or want to be but don’t have the confidence to be.

Or, it’s it’s someone you love, it’s because they are something outwardly that you are inwardly and they are manifestation of what you want to be. Therefore you are falling in love with yourself, or it’s that they personify something that you wish you could be and you either learn how they find comfort in it, or you live vicariously through them.

That’s why some people start jacking the slang of the person they are dealing with.

So all chosen relationships are relationships with yourself. So if you click it’s because you identified something in them that is you.

If you know who you are there’s nothing wrong with it. If you live blindly, you’ll keep meeting yourself wrapped up in another persons other bullshit consistently blind as to why you keep meeting the same person but it goes bad.

Cause they are you but also them, you ignore them, and fall in love with you

mofos should give u ur flowers for this post cuz it's deeper than people will give u credit for

people see parts of themselves in others, hence the reason for quick connections




nothing is wrong with that............but when someone is pushing to move forward so fast it's genuinely based on something else lacking in their life and they are just using u to compensate

SMH sadly I just had to tell a 40yr old mother of teenagers this same shit not too long ago

 

[ImaInfluenza]

mofos should give u ur flowers for this post cuz it's deeper than people will give u credit for

people see parts of themselves in others, hence the reason for quick connections




nothing is wrong with that............but when someone is pushing to move forward so fast it's genuinely based on something else lacking in their life and they are just using u to compensate

SMH sadly I just had to tell a 40yr old mother of teenagers this same shit not too long ago

I’ll take care of it



I’m so fucking dope

 

[Buckets_Biaaaaatch]

It’s a red flag if it’s two lonely people connecting fast… then it’s just two people trying to fill a need with whoever or whatever they find

 

[Big Lurko]

Chemistry is chemistry.... shit is natural. Just be careful

Can we get a lil deeper?…

I feel connections that hit so hard quick is because we known eachother in another life…

 

[Big Lurko]

She knows…

 

[Duwop]

Can we get a lil deeper?…

I feel connections that hit so hard quick is because we known eachother in another life…

Naw, it's mostly what germs said... you see something in them you can identify with so it's easy to be attracted to what you feel as though you're looking for in life. Just be careful to not get consumed in it. Cuz it is a person with their own mind and desires..... not just the feeling you're attracted to.

But that feeling of being seen and liked can easily become overwhelming

 

[ta_ref]

Chemistry is chemistry.... shit is natural. Just be careful

This. Don’t force shit too. If it’s meant to happen, it will happen.

 

[Tayboo]

Can we get a lil deeper?…

I feel connections that hit so hard quick is because we known eachother in another life…

Or that person can be love bombing you....

 

[IUTpt2]

Nah, not always.


Still keep your guard up and keep you eye open for anything they ask for.

 

[Big Lurko]

Or that person can be love bombing you....

Whats that?