Golden
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girl, I see ur points n they are food for thought. Hormone treatment and surgery has come a long way though, I have personally met a number of trans people who would be capable of passing.I don't think a trans person should disclose who they are.
Because of safety reasons and the fact it implies that trans people are abhorrent and should be "warned" about. (which is false)
Lets face the facts!!!
a lot of people know when they are messing with a transgender person, period.
when a person says they *didn't know*, they are lying more often than not and at the end of the day what does it matter?
outside of reproduction....
WHAT DOES IT MATTER?!!?
lol like nobody is tricked into dating a trans person
cut the BS
I think a trans person should only inform the person if they are thinking about kids
that's it.
Once I take on a new ID, once I transition into whoever I am becoming, it doesn't matter what I was before outside of reproduction.
I no longer ID with that self.
...therefore, its not my right to tell you.
If you feel tricked.....oh well.
:word?:you knew what it was from the beginning.
Like I said, people are seldom tricked when it comes to these things.
Transgender people are not out here running game on cisgender, heterosexual - identifying men and women.
Cis-hetero men and women run game on themselves. You were attracted to someone that was different and now you running around pointing fingers, blaming transgender people for your "ignorance" because you wanted to be on some "freaky" shit.
lmaoooooo stop it.
Stop infringing on peoples rights because you're uncomfortable.
Stop being scared of the fact that sexuality falls on a spectrum and one day you might be doing the "mmmmmbop" with a trans person.
To even be passing is a privileged place and not the norm because surgery and hormone treatment to that extent is either expensive or time consuming and has to happen at an early age to materialize to the point of "passing", so ur right in that being trans passing isn't that common. Most trans ppl have to do it in stages for economic or practical reasons, n most don't reach the point of ever being 100% passing.
To say that people who were 'tricked' r lyin to themselves n did know is making a blanket assumption that they truly weren't dealing with trans people who are able to pass. Things have come a long way and trans-passing is gonna be more common, esp now that it's becoming accepted as a medical condition and kids can begin transition before puberty kicks in. They're the ones who almost always end up in a position to pass.
We're prolly the 1st generation for whom being mistaken about or unable to detect the birth sex of a person is even an issue. Back in the day they cld see the 5 o clock shadow of the best of the best.