That's not a bad perspective to have... But it's not the popular one
It's not a popular one because a man's love isn't earned by a woman.
Woman don't do anything to get a man's love. They just have to exist in the wild and be stumbled upon.
Women love men because of what they do.
An attractive woman that ran it up a few times with a few men ain't gonna be playing the "Will I? Should I?" Game.
Men like that game because it makes it seem like we are making them love us for our personality or whatever.
Women play that game because they aren't secure in their criteria and that's why they leave when they become "unhappy" or "bored" in a relationship.
A woman that's ran it up has a clear criteria:
Money and lifestyle.
But men frown upon that because these type of women break men's myth of romance.
All my best girlfriends were the golddigger type. They understood the assignment.