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That's not a bad perspective to have... But it's not the popular one

It's not a popular one because a man's love isn't earned by a woman.

Woman don't do anything to get a man's love. They just have to exist in the wild and be stumbled upon.

Women love men because of what they do.

An attractive woman that ran it up a few times with a few men ain't gonna be playing the "Will I? Should I?" Game.

Men like that game because it makes it seem like we are making them love us for our personality or whatever.

Women play that game because they aren't secure in their criteria and that's why they leave when they become "unhappy" or "bored" in a relationship.

A woman that's ran it up has a clear criteria:
Money and lifestyle.

But men frown upon that because these type of women break men's myth of romance.

All my best girlfriends were the golddigger type. They understood the assignment.
 
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I think you're missing the point.

There is a reason chicks like her are called escorts and not just prostitutes even though at the end of the night, they'll probably wind up doing the same exact thing.

Dudes spend that money because they want to be seen with those chicks. It may not make sense, but dudes with money don't mind blowing it on bullshit.
LOL @ u schooling me here

I AM a dude with money who blows money on diff shit too.........but I guess wanting to be seen with a paid escort in a public place is some washed white dude shit

it ain't fair but a BM would get clowned for simpery like this


I'd rather pay a chick to do chores like wash dishes, or cut the grass or some shit before I chuck over almost a rack

just to take her to a game and help her upgrade her "status" 🙁




I guess I don't understand it no better than niggaz who subscribe to OF.................and I'm happy I'm blessed enough to where I don't have to
 
LOL @ u schooling me here

I AM a dude with money who blows money on diff shit too.........but I guess wanting to be seen with a paid escort in a public place is some washed white dude shit

it ain't fair but a BM would get clowned for simpery like this


I'd rather pay a chick to do chores like wash dishes, or cut the grass or some shit before I chuck over almost a rack

just to take her to a game and help her upgrade her "status" 🙁




I guess I don't understand it no better than niggaz who subscribe to OF.................and I'm happy I'm blessed enough to where I don't have to

Today's white boys with money trying to live that "Pretty Woman" bullshit to the fullest and the hoes are gonna line up for it.
 
LOL @ u schooling me here

I AM a dude with money who blows money on diff shit too.........but I guess wanting to be seen with a paid escort in a public place is some washed white dude shit

it ain't fair but a BM would get clowned for simpery like this


I'd rather pay a chick to do chores like wash dishes, or cut the grass or some shit before I chuck over almost a rack

just to take her to a game and help her upgrade her "status" 🙁




I guess I don't understand it no better than niggaz who subscribe to OF.................and I'm happy I'm blessed enough to where I don't have to

It ain't just white boys though. Escorts used to be eating in ATL of money from professional black men.

I'm telling you. Some dudes with money value attention from women over the money. I've seen niggas in DC break bartenders off with hundred of dollars just because the bartender was friendly with them.
 
It ain't just white boys though. Escorts used to be eating in ATL of money from professional black men.

I'm telling you. Some dudes with money value attention from women over the money. I've seen niggas in DC break bartenders off with hundred of dollars just because the bartender was friendly with them.
how u know any of this bruh? that's some serious pocketwatching from the sideline

u hanging with these same simping dudes

or is this a personal confession :icu:
 
how u know any of this bruh? that's some serious pocketwatching from the sideline

u hanging with these same simping dudes

or is this a personal confession :icu:

Lol Nigga, I was sitting at the bar when they did it. They made a production out of it. You think niggas do shit like that in secrecy?

Plus I always get to know the bartenders at every spot I frequent, and they would always brag when it happened to them
 
Lol Nigga, I was sitting at the bar when they did it. They made a production out of it. You think niggas do shit like that in secrecy?

Plus I always get to know the bartenders at every spot I frequent, and they would always brag when it happened to them
please share this story bruh

I've been at plenty of bars and never have I once paid attention to mofos I'm not personally kicking it with

to watch what they tip the bartender



plus I'm not having convos with bartenders I know about some other dude's money that don't affect me

still all seems just like hating/pocketwatching to me 🙁
 
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please share this story bruh

I've been at plenty of bars and never have I once paid attention to mofos I'm not personally kicking it with

to watch what they tip the bartender



plus I'm not having convos with bartenders I know about some other dude's money that don't affect me

still all seems just like hating/pocketwatching to me 🙁

Bruh, I don't know why you trying to make this something more than it is. I'm sitting at a bar chatting with a bartender. A dude comes up beside me and greets the bartender and puts something in her hand. She gets him his usual and he walks off.

The bartender comes over and tells me that he gave her $500. I ask why, and she says "Just because I'm nice to him." We then go back to our conversation and speak no more about that dude.

That's happened multiple times since I've been in DC. I literally did nothing just happen to be sitting there. I wasn't watching shit. I didn't ask shit. The guys do what they do in a way that anybody around can and will see. The bartenders are happy to brag about getting broken off for nothing. I don't give a shit about any of it. I have my own money so I'm not sure why you feel like I'm supposed to care about other people's pockets. This seems like some projection on your part or something.
 
Bruh, I don't know why you trying to make this something more than it is. I'm sitting at a bar chatting with a bartender. A dude comes up beside me and greets the bartender and puts something in her hand. She gets him his usual and he walks off.

The bartender comes over and tells me that he gave her $500. I ask why, and she says "Just because I'm nice to him." We then go back to our conversation and speak no more about that dude.

That's happened multiple times since I've been in DC. I literally did nothing just happen to be sitting there. I wasn't watching shit. I didn't ask shit. The guys do what they do in a way that anybody around can and will see. The bartenders are happy to brag about getting broken off for nothing. I don't give a shit about any of it. I have my own money so I'm not sure why you feel like I'm supposed to care about other people's pockets. This seems like some projection on your part or something.
LOL @ projection when u brought this bar shit up 1st

I literally grew up in DC and been in way too many bars in diff cities than I should be willing to admit to

that shit u talking ain't as common as u trying to make it sound like


a random bartender chick bragging and u taking her at her word just seems funny as hell to me 😂
 
LOL @ projection when u brought this bar shit up 1st

I literally grew up in DC and been in way too many bars in diff cities than I should be willing to admit to

that shit u talking ain't as common as u trying to make it sound like


a random bartender chick bragging and u taking her at her word just seems funny as hell to me 😂

I said I've seen it a lot, and I have. I can't and wasn't speaking for anyone else. Your experience in bars doesn't change shit for what I've seen.

As I said, I knew the bartender, so it wasn't some random chick bragging.

Nigga, put your fucking cape away. You seriously got your sword and shield ready to die on a dumbass hill in defense of simps and tricks. SMH Goofy ass niggas, I swear.
 
I said I've seen it a lot, and I have. I can't and wasn't speaking for anyone else. Your experience in bars doesn't change shit for what I've seen.

As I said, I knew the bartender, so it wasn't some random chick bragging.

Nigga, put your fucking cape away. You seriously got your sword and shield ready to die on a dumbass hill in defense of simps and tricks. SMH Goofy ass niggas, I swear.
LOL there it is..................mofos always resort to insults when holes get shot thru their weak premises🙁

now I'm in defense of simps when my original point was that I can't relate to their behavior at all (and that the rules are diff for black men vs white men simping)

meanwhile u were the one who brought up this liar's talk of how frequently u believe black men out here blowing bread on bartenders for nothing
cuz somehow u the only one who got the insight on this phenomenon without doing it urself:icu:

it wouldn't be a crime to admit maybe u were exaggerating (or maybe ur bartender friend was doing more for that money and u were naive enough to believe the bullshit)

I forgive u tho fam it's more than obvious u don't know any better😂
 
LOL there it is..................mofos always resort to insults when holes get shot thru their weak premises🙁

now I'm in defense of simps when my original point was that I can't relate to their behavior at all (and that the rules are diff for black men vs white men simping)

meanwhile u were the one who brought up this liar's talk of how frequently u believe black men out here blowing bread on bartenders for nothing
cuz somehow u the only one who got the insight on this phenomenon without doing it urself:icu:

it wouldn't be a crime to admit maybe u were exaggerating (or maybe ur bartender friend was doing more for that money and u were naive enough to believe the bullshit)

I forgive u tho fam it's more than obvious u don't know any better😂

I ain't reading that bullshit. I recounted my actual experience and for some reason that triggered you. Get over it and get over yourself. Don't waste any calories typing a response because I'm just going to ignore it and you from now on.
 
I think there's a space that exists to say

1) damn, I've never seen this

And

2) damn, niggas outchea moving like that?

Your personal experiences are not the standard which is also ok.

What's one man's bartender is another man's stripper.

There does exist a subset of men who willingly give money to women simply for being kind.
 
I ain't reading that bullshit. I recounted my actual experience and for some reason that triggered you. Get over it and get over yourself. Don't waste any calories typing a response because I'm just going to ignore it and you from now on.
yeah u read it and u gon read this too 😂

if u so in ur feelings that u need to ignore my posts from this light exchange

then it's obvious u were the one who felt "triggered" for whatever reason

shit we talking in this thread ain't even serious enough to get mad about

I asked a question cuz I like to challenge my own assumptions...........here I was under the impression u were one of the OG married dudes



but now u trying to talk like u out here enough to really know what simps are doing in the streets

I don't why it's such a bad thing to just admit being out of touch.......makes no sense to be that offended at me not automatically believing ur "bartender" stories
 
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I think there's a space that exists to say

1) damn, I've never seen this

And

2) damn, niggas outchea moving like that?

Your personal experiences are not the standard which is also ok.

What's one man's bartender is another man's stripper.

There does exist a subset of men who willingly give money to women simply for being kind.
happy medium.....that's understandable

but who gets that offended just cuz somebody thinks u might be exaggerating a lil bit

we ain't talking about nothing that serious to where mofos should be getting that much in their feelings

to where they shooting insults and then they threaten to "ignore" somebody😂


abw posters just built different mayne.........we all too old for this🙁
 
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