I was getting threads crossed up. I'm thinking more about the discussion that happened in the trial thread. That revolved around freakoffs and how nasty they got. In that respect, yeah I do think stealing your dead so-called friend's money away from his kids is worse than getting Cassie to do nasty stuff that she, to some extent, seemed to be down for. Especially, if he was in some way complicit, even accidentally, in BIG's death.
The murder and rape accusations, if they are true, are worse of course.