He gotta get his own issue g, if he feel like you're always gonna step in to protect him then he'll continue to do crash dummy shit.
He views you as his safety net.
You have to live for your children anything outside of that say a prayer and keep pushing.
Big nose you're too old for the bullshit, the game has passed you. They play by different rules now you on some tough shit thinking you gone put hands on them, they'll pop yo silly ass and have you stuck on stupid.