I think people who seek to have haters have haters. If you seek things that garner attention to be adored or admired, you'll have haters.
Nice jewelry that you flaunt, those who don't have it will feel ur flaunt is a diss and hate u.
Nice car that you kit and rim out that you use to garner attention from the ladies. Those who don't have that and have trouble getting the ladies will hate you.
Have a woman that is "traditionally and culturally" beautiful. And you flaunt her on your arm as a trophy. Those that feel they cant get her, will see you flaunt as a diss and hate on you
So I think people that flaunt, do actively seek to upset and create haters.
Outside of that, there are people in your life. Usually close to you that have a secret competition in their heads with you. Those are the haters most of us have. And usually, we don't even know them to be haters.
Ion think I have haters, which mean i probably got some. But because ion see em, ion care. If someone does something adverse to me and their reason was they are "hating" on me. I won't even see it like that, I'll just see what they did and if and how I get back.