Waverly said you have to have a deep voice, buy her gifts, a perfect hairline, take her to expensive restaurants , be celibate, read your Bible daily, go to church, be attractive to her, possibly be willing to allow her to be a stay at home wife and homeschool the kids (so you have to make enough money to do that), and you cannot play video games, gamble, drink, or smoke. Plus he has to be attracted to her in order to do all this.