Up and coming slowly gentrifying unless u live in Jackson Heights which is Rich as fuck
I have survived Chicago this long w these rules
1) mind ur business
2) don’t loiter outside (sitting in cars talking is a no no)
3) No where u going and how u getting there before leaving the crib
4) Not every thing deserves an aggressive reaction
5) try your best to avoid confrontations especially physical cuz ppl don’t fight fair and almost every one has a gun
Took me to age 36 to realize that for me, the most important element to a healthy and meaningful relationship is having things in common, and enjoying doing those things in common with one another.
Enjoying those thing with one another so much that its moment everytime yall do it.
In my youth first I thought what a meaningful relationship was, was that she gave it up when u wanted. Then time together made her less sexually attractive.
Then I thought what a meaningful relationship was, was that she was a prize, a possession to floss that other men wanted. Then time together made me realize they over valued and over estimated who she was, so she was no prize.
Then I thought what a meaningful relationship was, was someone who helped elevate my life quality. Then over time my life quality elevated beyond where her ceiling was to help me, and she lost her quality to me.
Then I thought what a meaningful relationship was, was someone I could relate to, and understood me. Then over time, we both grew and no longer related to one another.
All that to realize doing for one another isn't what a meaningful relationship is. Its actually just being happy together, just cause.
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