Mother Puts Uncontrollable Son In Foster Care; Son Allegedly Gets Abused

[AP4.0]

What if he wasn't a crashout?



What if he did want to be around?


Just asking, because I'm starting to think that this is a false narrative that we've been raised to believe.


We all know that the courts almost always side with the mother in custody cases.

And there have been multiple videos in which fathers have scheduled visitations with their kids........and, despite the father having a court order, the mother still decides not to allow the father to see his child.


Guess it's just a matter of perspective.

Is the glass half-full.......or half-empty?


In any event, the common denominator in these dysfunctional situations is the lack of a respectable father or father figure.

I guess for me is I think with all the gender wars over the past decade or so, the default is to blame the woman for keeping kids away from their father's without acknowledging there are just as many niggas who simply do not want to be involved on any level

 

[Duwop]

Think the point is the kid needs professional help. The only thing either parent is guilty imo is not recognizing that.

 

[deadeye]

I guess for me is I think with all the gender wars over the past decade or so, the default is to blame the woman for keeping kids away from their father's without acknowledging there are just as many niggas who simply do not want to be involved on any level

All I'm saying, is.......knowing what we know now.........it wouldn't hurt to give fathers the benefit of the doubt.


Say what you want about the gender wars, but it's brought a lot of truth to the forefront that wouldn't have otherwise been acknowledged.

 

[AP4.0]

All I'm saying, is.......knowing what we know now.........it wouldn't hurt to give fathers the benefit of the doubt.


Say what you want about the gender wars, but it's brought a lot of truth to the forefront that wouldn't have otherwise been acknowledged.

But it's not the truth

It's based on very extreme and biased povs

 

[Freeman]

Yall doing too much back n forth with @deadeye

The juice is never worth the squeeze lol.

 

[deadeye]

But it's not the truth

It's based on very extreme and biased povs

I could say the same thing about y'all.


You're choosing to give the mother the benefit of the doubt...........I'm choosing to give it to the father.

You choose to blame the father, all I'm saying is don't be so quick to judge without knowing all the facts.


In other words:

 

[deadeye]

Yall doing too much back n forth with @deadeye

The juice is never worth the squeeze lol.

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