Men, do you think of the consequences of your actions...

[Loquacious]

before you make a decision?

for example, do you think about how your s/o will feel and how she may react and base your decisions off that or do you just shoot for the stars and deal with the damage later.

example: you’re in a relationship and you texting another chick. You know your girl will be mad if she catch you but feel like you can deal with how mad she will get and everything will be cool later. So you text the other chick anyway.

 

[Rubato]

Yes

Who hurt you

 

[Lea]

Here for the lies

 

[Loquacious]

Yes

Who hurt you

Nigga I’m single. I can’t be hurt.

 

[itsupthere]

Try to.


At the point now where I try not to piss off ppl close to me. Don't like to burn bridges.

 

[Rubato]

Nigga I’m single. I can’t be hurt.

Hurt was past tense lmao

 

[AZTG]

Now I do. I wont cheat on my girl not cause I think cheating is wrong morally, but because she would be hurt if she found out. Plus I would feel guilty lying to her.

Thats how I feel now though. Wasnt always the case. Growth and maturity ongoing

 

[OhMars]

When I was young I didn't. I rationalized it by saying to myself "if knowing was the only way it would affect her then it must not be wrong". But, now I know that not true and a shitty justification.

 

[Loquacious]

Hurt was past tense lmao

Nah. This ain’t got nothing to do with me.
That was your first mistake.

 

[Loquacious]

I don’t believe you niglets.

 

[Chicity]

I'm different. In my youth it was easier to ask forgiveness than to ask for permission. Yeah she gonna be mad.....but only if she find out is how I rationalized it

I spent more time hiding cheating than actually cheating at times

Too old to be intentionally hurting someone when we monogamous

 

[Chicity]

Most ppl aren't empathetic to how they words and choices will affect the ppl they lives

Some ppl are too damn sensitive also so you literally have to be like a ninja just so you dont offended them

End result, find a person thats gonna let you do you

 

[AP2.5]

What about the ladies

 

[Lea]

What about the ladies

You answer. This ought to be interesting

 

[Hater Hearst Helmsley]

Wouldn’t have got this far if I didn’t

 

[ImaInfluenza]

I'd be lying if I said I always do

 

[Golan]

Depends on on how much I respect/like her, tbh.

 

[The Mad Titan]

Now? Yes

Took a long time for me to get there. Ima "who gon stop me" ass dude and always have just done whatever I wanted fuck the outcome

But, she's worn me down over the years and I'm a lot more thoughtful about the choices I make. Maturity finally kicked in

 

[mryounggun]

Most niggas don’t go into it thinking ‘She will forgive me when she catches me.’ Or ‘The potential of this new pussy is worth more than my woman’s feelings.’.

Niggas go into it assuming they won’t get caught, so there’s no need to worry about it.

 

[SeaSnake]

before you make a decision?

for example, do you think about how your s/o will feel and how she may react and base your decisions off that or do you just shoot for the stars and deal with the damage later.

example: you’re in a relationship and you texting another chick. You know your girl will be mad if she catch you but feel like you can deal with how mad she will get and everything will be cool later. So you text the other chick anyway.

Yes.