Nah I meant what I said..its an adult self responsible way of looking at shit. I'm not discounting or disowning the responsibility of the men involved. It's like people who pop shit then say they have freedom of speech when someone challenges them. Freedom of speech is not freedom of consequence. People be havin all kinds of bars about how niggaz are grimey but disregard that logic in their lives.
I once met a guy that had the smile and demeanor of mase but was a fuckin demon of a nigga at the end of the day. And it always bugged me out how he casually rocked nigga to sleep, tru sociopath before I even knew what that was. Like..I have a inability to trust anyone..I've seen to many people not look the part, be the part.
I dont know how any woman trusts that environment..how do you not move with a someone you absolutely trust to lay a nigga down and be around niggaz who will lay a nigga down..
It just blows my mind, and I don't see how no one else here thinks like that