Ladies, Just Ask the Fellas

Inspired by @Punctual And Organized in the soul mates thread....fellas share your stories on how a lady shot her shot at you. Was she successful or did you Mutombo her?
Technically…she didn’t shoot her shot,..technically..it was more like this

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Like never ever??? I find that hard to believe.
Super facts. I've never had a woman actively pursue me. Not one that I hadn't already dicked down at least🤷🏿‍♂️

Im very flirty tho so I'm sure I'd reciprocate any shot she'd take. Even if it don't end in anything, I always have a great time talking and interacting with women
 
Inspired by @Punctual And Organized in the soul mates thread....fellas share your stories on how a lady shot her shot at you. Was she successful or did you Mutombo her?
My wife shot her shot. We were in the same Algebra class in college. Not even 10 minutes into the class, the fire bell rang. We were outside and I notice her lookin at me. I was still sore about my ex leaving me so I didn't make the first move, but she did. Years later she said that she wasn't going to leave college without finding herself someone, and that would be me!!!!!
 
Why do men tell you that they are looking for anything serious or deep, but then get in their fees fees when you actually don't catch feelings??

E-G-O

B/c those type of men are use to the women catching the feels. So when they do...the men react accordingly. It's boosts their ego. They're in "control"

BUT when they meet a woman who flips it on them...hit'em wit the...

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reaction...then actually follows thru wit her no fuccs given attitude towards catching feelings...you're essentially doing this to his ego...
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His brain doesn't know how to compute that.

So now he's gonna do everything he can to regain "control" by tryin to get YOU to catch feelings.
 
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I know a person can't make you happy, but what are someways your woman can add to your happiness that doesn't include inserting yourself into one of her orifices?

Showing you pay attention to little shit. Like for instance if you know I like a certain food surprising me with it. Or even something as simple as "I grabbed you some blunts from the gas station when I stopped for gas". Just little shit like that that shows you actually pay attention to me and not just thinking any generic shit can be done
 
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I know a person can't make you happy, but what are someways your woman can add to your happiness that doesn't include inserting yourself into one of her orifices?
Understand my moods and what she should do when Im in one.

Having interest in something that I’m highly interested in.

Knowing me and acting accordingly

Appreciating what I do.

and the last one and most important..don’t play wit me. Like..ion care if you flirt, but don’t be on some nigga dick infront of me. Know what being on a nigga dick look like..a lot of chicks be like “ whaaaa I’m just talking”
 
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I know a person can't make you happy, but what are someways your woman can add to your happiness that doesn't include inserting yourself into one of her orifices?
Being open to watching sports and actually enjoying watching with me. My ex used to not give a damn and now she ended up asking me about who's playing tonight, what's their record n shit lol. Being able to enjoy different genres of music was always big for me too.

Understanding that I sometimes just require time by myself and like my space. Nothing to do with her I just need my peace of mind too.
 
Why do men tell you that they are looking for anything serious or deep, but then get in their fees fees when you actually don't catch feelings??
I think the biggest pc of horse shit is ppl saying they don't catch feelings.You spend enough time with a person and yall have great moments you gonna catch feelings. It's inevitable. Good vibes is good vibes

These feelings don't mean yall gotta take the situation to the next level, but shit, ain't nothing wrong with admitting to liking a person more now than when yall originally linked up
 
Inspired by @Punctual And Organized in the soul mates thread....fellas share your stories on how a lady shot her shot at you. Was she successful or did you Mutombo her?
The old mama I used to rock with before I made that move with the wife. She was 13 years my senior. I couldn't do nothing but respect the moves made. Plus, she taught a young 20-somethin some shit. Never got mouf while driving before she came along. Never drove a woman's car before that, either. She had me whippin her truck. If she wasn't married, she would've been the only woman I would've been a step daddy for.
 
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I know a person can't make you happy, but what are someways your woman can add to your happiness that doesn't include inserting yourself into one of her orifices?

Just being there. Quality time and physical touch are my love languages. If I really fuck with you like that (which is rare) I just want you around. All in my personal space. We don't even have to be doing anything inparticular. I'm a boring nigga that likes everything calm and low key, can you be boring and low key with me and just be in my space without fucking up the vibes?

That's adds to my happiness in a relationship. And I definitely need someone on a similar wave.
 
Inspired by @Punctual And Organized in the soul mates thread....fellas share your stories on how a lady shot her shot at you. Was she successful or did you Mutombo her?


Majority of the women I've dealt were the ones who shot their shot 1st. Why? B/c my azzz was too clueless to recognize the signs that they were interested in me.

A lot of that had to do wit being rejected when I was a skinny brotha. So when came across a chick who WAS interested...I didn't take it seriously. B/c there was a couple of times I got played. So I didn't really know how to react. Was just preparing myself to get friend zoned to oblivion.
 
So I have a question 🤔

If a guy your intimate with vehemently proclaims to not want children right now, but goes in raw and bust a nut in you.

What does that mean?

Is the 😻💦🍑 just that damn good and they just lose all sense of control?
I'm hoping that he has had that talk and she's on birth control. If not he rolling the dice.

If he had said this why would you keep letting him bust off in you?
 
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