Golden
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selective niceness usually has an agenda. if they're that nice to all their homies, it aint flirting.So is it just being nice when you choose select person or few to be "nice" to or is it flirting?
@TheMasterKey
@BNE
just cleared it up, the text messages would do something if she likes him, but what if she doesn't like him,
@BNE is he a simp or sad case?
@BNE could you start liking the text dude because of the constant sending of the text messages on a consistent basis, like would you ever be on some "dayum I got a dude that sends me a good morning, text and a good night text, make sure I'm ok, and I'm liking these other dudes or entertaining these other dudes who don't even return my phone calls"Not necessary you but you get the point
if I don't already like him, those "good morning beautiful" texts r not gonna make me like him.
If we're defining simp as someone who keeps shooting their shot, despite knowing it isn't reciprocated, then yes that is lightweight simp behavior. wouldn't call it a sad case unless they were really extra or obnoxious with it.
i dont entertain dudes there isn't a mutual interest with so I wldn't be in the "I'm chasing guys who aint feeling me, but this one is..." or "they treat me like dirt, but Michael thinks I'm a queen" predicament. I'd be polite unless they gave me reasons not to.