It's going nowhere...

[Eartha Clit]

How long after realizing that a relationship or situation is going nowhere, do you just let it go?

Let's just say the relationship ain't deep yet. Just the "talking" stage.

 

[Chi-Town B]

As soon as I realize there isn't anything there I'm ending it, no point in keeping it going to only be miserable

 

[Eartha Clit]

Yea, I'm DEADING that shit immediately. I just had to cut someone off. It just wasn't gonna work.

 

[IP360]

When no effort is being made from the other person.

 

[Goldie]

But it's never that simple, if they weren't receiving any kind of effort, I doubt they'd even have to question whether it's worth it or not. But in a lot of cases they're doing everything a regular couple normally does, they just don't have the title.

 

[devlyn]

Yea, I'm DEADING that shit immediately. I just had to cut someone off. It just wasn't gonna work.

@KandyPants ....honey I was just going to ask you what's going on?? Some of topics I felt you had something on your mind....

But when it seems that you are putting too much effort in and the other person isn't. When getting up just doesn't happen for some reason or the other.

 

[Eartha Clit]

@KandyPants ....honey I was just going to ask you what's going on?? Some of topics I felt you had something on your mind....

But when it seems that you are putting too much effort in and the other person isn't. When getting up just doesn't happen for some reason or the other.

Oh naw, if I had something on my mind, the person would know. I'm an upfront kind of chick. However, I have a group page on Facebook and this be shit we talk about. So I come over here and ask the same shit. I like to see how people think and why they think the way they do, that's all. Everything I post doesn't pertain to me and my situation. I'm single as shit. I don't have these issues. I'm good over here.

 

[Eartha Clit]

But it's never that simple, if they weren't receiving any kind of effort, I doubt they'd even have to question whether it's worth it or not. But in a lot of cases they're doing everything a regular couple normally does, they just don't have the title.

It is that simple but people say my problem is I detach too easily.

 

[Ironman]

If there isn't any growth or I feel like I'm trying to create something new more than the other person I'm out.

 

[Duwop]

i'm an expert at breaking up with people..if ny of yall need help in severing a tie, and really want advice and opinions that you plan on using, holla at your boy

 

[Goldie]

That's why you and @Race Jones need to make that podcast happen.

 

[Eartha Clit]

It ain't nothing to cut that b-word off.

 

[devlyn]

Oh naw, if I had something on my mind, the person would know. I'm an upfront kind of chick. However, I have a group page on Facebook and this be shit we talk about. So I come over here and ask the same shit. I like to see how people think and why they think the way they do, that's all. Everything I post doesn't pertain to me and my situation. I'm single as shit. I don't have these issues. I'm good over here.

ok thanks for the answer. I admit they are still topics that be on people's mind.

 

[AP2.5]

That's why you and @Race Jones need to make that podcast happen.

:(

 

[Sam Crooke]

Even a small lighter can burn bridges... but first I'm a see what them lips like... top and bottom

 

[Eartha Clit]

BUMP.

 

[Duwop]

communication is everything...

some people like relationships that grow and progress,

some people like relationships guc of their current situation, and it meets their immediate needs...

there's a lotta people that would be single if the other person wasn't homeless forreeal.....

 

[Judge Dread]

If we are not serious and I wanted it to progress then the minute I realize it isn’t progressing.