Lets be real. Most of the time, adults who claimed they sacrificed it all so they're kids never have to worry about money, are lying or are greatly exaggerating. There comes a point when you stop doing it for them and are just doing it for yourself.
People out here that been had money, already part of the 1%, yet they still never home or see their kids often, but claiming they're doing it for their family and think everything is great because they bought an expensive Bday or Xmas gift.
You cant 100% put getting the bag before spending time with your kids, then be appalled when they reach adulthood and put getting the bag over you.