Friends? Never.
Male family? Never.
Female family? Every chance I get.
Why you don't tell your homies and male family?
I dont say it as often as I guess I should, but idk how often it should be said either. Each person maybe needs their own dose of love. If you're in my life, like close proximity to my actual body, you can generally assume with abandon that I love you or wouldnt be there that's for damb sure. If you constantly need to be reassured you're loved, you will fall out of my graces.
Operating on logic I attract people who operate on emotions. If you keep encountering the same "problem" its cuz ya stubborn ass still aint learnt what you're suppose to. So I guess the last decades of my life is learning to operate with more emotion.Funny shit about this is that I get it.
But I been told so many times that you gotta express your love cause it feels good for it to be heard even if the person knows that it must be true.
Im just like you though. Especially in my relationships. Ive had to tell my exes like the fact that were together is proof I like/love you, If not why would i be here even having this dumb ass conversation with you?
But end of the day, im learning that shit should be expressed cause just feeling it aint enough.
Wanted to ? and ? at the same timeI dont say it as often as I guess I should, but idk how often it should be said either. Each person maybe needs their own dose of love. If you're in my life, like close proximity to my actual body, you can generally assume with abandon that I love you or wouldnt be there that's for damn sure. If you constantly need to be reassured you're loved, you will fall out of my graces.
break this cycle BAint no reason for it.
I grew up in a family where love wasnt really expressed. The love was always there, but no one really said i love you to each other like that.
Me personally, i didnt start telling people i loved them until my mid 20s, that includes moms. Now I tell my mom, sister, and close female cousins that i love them everytime we talk.
Havent had the need to tell the males in my fam. But who knows, that might naturally change in a few years.