How long can you tolerate your s/o dealing with a traumatic issue?

[DOS_patos]

let's say everything going good. y'all married for a bit. bills paid, no financial worries, both got nice cars, house paid for, marriage going well and strong

then outta the blue, a tragic incident occurs that effects their mental health...example: bad car accident they survived or rape attempt, or a shooting they survived, violent robbery, seeing someone close to them killed in front of them....whatever.

we all know people deal with things differently. some pretend to get over it, some hide their pain. but how long can you deal with someone who is in a depressed state from the situation?

what if it's going on 3 yrs? an they don't seem like it's getting better, yet?

do you stick it out?

or do you set a timeline?

what do you do?

 

[Ironman]

She's my ride or die that won't change and we will do the best we can to get through whatever happened.

 

[Golden]

I am not a ride or die but trauma is something I'd stick with sum1 thru without an expiry date.

 

[Ironman]

I am not a ride or die but trauma is something I'd stick with sum1 thru without an expiry date.

That's what ride or die is though lol

 

[Duwop]

I ain't setting no time limit, but I'd recommend therapy if it was that bad

 

[Golden]

that said, if they r unwilling to be helped n don't want to work with u, n yrs pass? that complicates things.

 

[Old Man Cain]

Never leave.

 

[Joshie Kahn]

shitting they survived

:lmao2:

Seriously tho if worst came to worst I got their back till the end

 

[IP360]

For better or for worse.

 

[Duwop]

As long as they don't become dangerous

 

[SeaSnake]

Forever

 

[Chi-Town B]

It's until death do us part, I'm not gonna leave.

 

[Black Arachnia]

If we are married I wont desert him. If not married, one year, two tops.