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have you ever ghosted someone or been ghosted on? And when I say ghost I'm talking about y'all been dating for awhile and one day the person stopped contacting you out of the blue, and the person does not return your calls/texts. Nor were there any discussion about moving on from the person.
 
Yes....this dude had been trying to holla at me for months but I wasn't ready to date yet. Eventually we started talking and he invited me to his house. We go to his room and he's trying to fuck. I had no issue with that because it had been a few months since I had any but I wasn't prepared because I didn't have condoms nor did he. So I was like I ain't fucking without a condom. He was pressuring me to fuck without one and I was like no and I broke down crying (lol) telling him all the reasons why we shouldn't do it. He wasn't hearing it so he told me to leave and I got my shit and left. We did run into each other because we frequented the same reggae club but we didn't acknowledge each other.
 
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A couple times actually

The most memorable one was this chick I met at a young black professional shindig

I walk her to her car, get her number and we began talking

She had just gotten out of a relationship some months prior and I was cool with it because I wasn't trying to get into one.

We go out a couple of times. She even came by the crib, ended up taking a nap and I played my Xbox until she woke up.

Then out the blue, she stopped responding to my texts/calls. We didn't have a blow-up or nothing like that. Pride was kinda hurt, so as a last resort, I hit her up on FB to see what the deal was. She said she wasn't looking to get in a relationship and thought we were moving too fast because she thought I wanted one...I mean, she invited me to a house party then kissed me when she walked outside with me to my car.

How did I give you the impression I wanted to be in a relationship. I think what really happened is that she got back with her ex
 
MzKB said:
Yes....this dude had been trying to holla at me for months but I wasn't ready to date yet. Eventually we started talking and he invited me to his house. We go to his room and he's trying to fuck. I had no issue with that because it had been a few months since I had any but I wasn't prepared because I didn't have condoms nor did he. So I was like I ain't fucking without a condom. He was pressuring me to fuck without one and I was like and I broke down crying (lol) telling him all the reasons why we shouldn't do it. He wasn't hearing it so he told me to leave and I got my shit and left. We did run into each other because we frequented the same reggae club but we didn't acknowledge each other.
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That nigga a fool. Quick store run
 
AP21 said:
A couple times actually

The most memorable one was this chick I met at a young black professional shindig

I walk her to her car, get her number and we began talking

She had just gotten out of a relationship some months prior and I was cool with it because I wasn't trying to get into one.

We go out a couple of times. She even came by the crib, ended up taking a nap and I played my Xbox until she woke up.

Then out the blue, she stopped responding to my texts/calls. We didn't have a blow-up or nothing like that. Pride was kinda hurt, so as a last resort, I hit her up on FB to see what the deal was. She said she wasn't looking to get in a relationship and thought we were moving too fast because she thought I wanted one...I mean, she invited me to a house party then kissed me when she walked outside with me to my car.

How did I give you the impression I wanted to be in a relationship. I think what really happened is that she got back with her ex
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You were "too nice" and didn't try to fuck her when she came over and napped. Not your fault though. She was afraid of a decent man.
 
MzKB said:
You were "too nice" and didn't try to fuck her when she came over and napped. Not your fault though. She was afraid of a decent man.
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This was one of the few times I didn't listen to my left shoulder and just whip my dick out
 
Too bad I don't have one, I'd be a man whore.

"Fuck that, whipping dicks out all 2k18".
 
Too many times to tell, lol. I'd have chicks thinking we about to be a couple only to ghost they ass. I wouldn't lie and they would know I didn't want a relationship, but I've always treated women well so I guess they couldn't reconcile the two sides.

At the time figured I didn't owe an explanation because we weren't a couple, but looking back that shit was so foul.

So many beautiful women, smh. If only I could do it again.
 
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