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What started off as good advice turned into sheer stupidity. Pretty solid video by the young lady responding to Jackson's stupid generalizations
He’s talking from a place of hurt and bitterness. But of course people will bypass his point to focus on that one statement.
Now everybody is gonna focus on that. Message is now lost.He was giving great advice until he generalized it to one specific group of females.
He is in the media and has been in the public eye for a long time so he understands how words can be used "for" or "against" your cause.
SMH
Now everybody is gonna focus on that. Message is now lost.
did he?He just dissed black women IMO
He’s talking from a place of hurt and bitterness. But of course people will bypass his point to focus on that one statement.
you need to stay out of baby mama drama threads.I'm disappointed in Stak honestly. But whatever. There's more important shit going on.
My dude, that doesn't make sense. Bitter and fat are two different words. One is an emotion and the other is a physical appearance. Saying fat black women means all fat black women. But they all have different personalities so what type of personality gets on that person's nerves? So fat white, Chinese, Indian, etc women are all cool? Saying "Bitter black women " will cause a dude's downfall is alright to say but a bitter white women will still help you in life? Now if he is speaking on his experience, it still doesn't make sense because all bitter women can be your downfall. When he said "Bitter black women" it sounds like he is saying they will do extra damage to a person then other bitter women. Words have power. If an audience is confused by a message, it wasn't a good message. Great speakers can convey their message without confusion.did he?
or did he say bitter black women?
if a chick aint bitter then whats the problem?
not saying you but we have to stop taking shit on that dont fit us.
someone say fat black people get on they nerves. i cant say they saying all black people get on they nerves. the person specified.
if the person said all....then i can speak on it.
we cant keep invalidating someones experience because we didnt live it.
alot of people have zero empathy for shit they dont see or live.
the message is the message.
we should really stop waiting for something to jump on just to invalidate the message.
its like some people wait just for that
do you think sometimes it can be the listener?My dude, that doesn't make sense. Bitter and fat are two different words. One is an emotion and the other is a physical appearance. Saying fat black women means all fat black women. But they all have different personalities so what type of personality gets on that person's nerves? So fat white, Chinese, Indian, etc women are all cool? Saying "Bitter black women " will cause a dude's downfall is alright to say but a bitter white women will still help you in life? Now if he is speaking on his experience, it still doesn't make sense because all bitter women can be your downfall. When he said "Bitter black women" it sounds like he is saying they will do extra damage to a person then other bitter women. Words have power. If an audience is confused by a message, it wasn't a good message. Great speakers can convey their message without confusion.
do you think sometimes it can be the listener?
i clearly got his message.
and i agree. a bitter person will destroy anyone they can. it just happens to be the black women he dealt with that hes speaking on and the others like them are toxic.
thing is....why cant all be true?
it can be bitter people
it can be bitter black women.
it can be bitter dudes
and it can be bitter black dudes.
but if a bitter black dude says anything about a bitter black woman...why cant he be speaking from hurt and give a warning.
or must he say...all bitter women to protect people egos and insecurities?
we all grown....we gotta stop with this.
we know what hes saying.
we know what hes implying.
everyone is not malcolm X level orators.
There is a reason why some people shouldn't have a mic. Because they sometimes can't convey their message clearly . If a white girl/dude said the same thing "Bitter black men/women" would the energy be the same? "Specificity" is important in speech. Without it, your message can and will be picked apart. You may have got the message but it is obvious others didn't. Then other media groups or other races could use this message against him since he wasn't specific, they could use it to bash black women. People sleep on how powerful words are. It is not what you mean but how you say it. Plus, I thought you were one of those "on code" dudes? Wouldn't this be one of those cases or not?do you think sometimes it can be the listener?
i clearly got his message.
and i agree. a bitter person will destroy anyone they can. it just happens to be the black women he dealt with that hes speaking on and the others like them are toxic.
thing is....why cant all be true?
it can be bitter people
it can be bitter black women.
it can be bitter dudes
and it can be bitter black dudes.
but if a bitter black dude says anything about a bitter black woman...why cant he be speaking from hurt and give a warning.
or must he say...all bitter women to protect people egos and insecurities?
we all grown....we gotta stop with this.
we know what hes saying.
we know what hes implying.
everyone is not malcolm X level orators.
so what mindframe are you in to think he needs to fix it if thats not what he meant?You're like stretch Armstrong with your reaching.
1. Jackson is in the media and has been under media scrutiny most of his life, he understands how the game is played and how things are perceived when you publicly put info out
2. He doubled/tripled down on his comments by posting he doesn't date black women anymore.
3. He could've and should've cleaned his comments up if he didn't want his true meaning to be misconstrued
do you think sometimes it can be the listener?
i clearly got his message.
and i agree. a bitter person will destroy anyone they can. it just happens to be the black women he dealt with that hes speaking on and the others like them are toxic.
thing is....why cant all be true?
it can be bitter people
it can be bitter black women.
it can be bitter dudes
and it can be bitter black dudes.
but if a bitter black dude says anything about a bitter black woman...why cant he be speaking from hurt and give a warning.
or must he say...all bitter women to protect people egos and insecurities?
we all grown....we gotta stop with this.
we know what hes saying.
we know what hes implying.
everyone is not malcolm X level orators.
i agree with everything here...but i will say....tribalism and also distort the message to many.Sometimes it can be the listener's own biases that distort how a message is perceived. This is true, however when multiple people "misinterpret" your message then that's the fault of the messenger not the listening audience.