NeighborhoodNomad
the marathon continues........
First off NO...i just wana know someone intentions..if a girl wants a good guy n relationship she would put in effort. I never rush into a relationship period...but u obviously know if u find someone atractive or not...only there personality can ruin it.
If a female puts in effort(calling..texting) and says...hey im looking for a relationship(no rush)...i have no problem taking someone out...im sure yall have all done movie dates before...basically u meet say hi...2 hour movie..talk for a lil n than go home. You dont really get to see how someones vibes is...im good at spoting read flags..
its funny to me how posters act like they dont see females bragging about using dudes for dinner n shit..
I met up with that asian chick it was very positive vibes. She told me before she open to a relationship...wants to start off as a friend n feel each other out...(im talkn to another women tho) i cant drop the team
I get it. The best way to tell people's intentions are their actions. "Hi my name is ___ and I'm looking for a relationship" isn't realistic. Putting in effort goes beyond calling/texting, it's action.
It's just a big question to be asking someone you just met.
Also it's all about perspective. A movie is a good way to get to know a little about someone. After the movie you have several topics of conversations to work with and depending on the type of movie and conversation you can definitely get a good vibe.
Do you make it clear why you're there or what your intentions are from the jump?
If you're looking for a relationship maybe put on your profile that you're there for a relationship and save both of y'all's time having to question each other's intentions.
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