When i was a kid, i had false expectations on attracting women. I thought you had to be manly, arrogant, materialistic, etc. because that's what other boys told me. After spending time with some girls, i realized that's far from the truth. I had a friend who's name was Layla. She was a very nice girl who did alot for me. That was the first time i felt i could be myself. I didn't have anything to prove like when i was around other guys. No one made fun of me for being different. In fact, she and other girls got upset when i wanted to be like other guys. Women hated them because they only cared about themselves and were disgusting. They knew i was a sweet kid at heart and loved the traits i had which other boys thought was unmanly like honesty, humility, good sense of humor, kindness, etc.