Lotta dudes ain't qualified to be mentors nor are they responsible enough with their time management to take on that kinda responsibility.
I essentially have 3 kids now.... I would be doing a child a disservice to take on a mentee. Because someone is getting slighted. Either my wife is getting neglected, my kids, or my time at home. Or most likely the kid I'm supposed to be mentoring
We don't live in an ideal world, so every optimistic notion isn't always realistic. If you have the time, resources and energy, go for it. But if you don't have the room on your plate, don't feel guilty due to an obligation that's not inherently yours
I essentially have 3 kids now.... I would be doing a child a disservice to take on a mentee. Because someone is getting slighted. Either my wife is getting neglected, my kids, or my time at home. Or most likely the kid I'm supposed to be mentoring
We don't live in an ideal world, so every optimistic notion isn't always realistic. If you have the time, resources and energy, go for it. But if you don't have the room on your plate, don't feel guilty due to an obligation that's not inherently yours