Debate: Can porn be an enhancing or damaging factor to a relationship?
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Dont drank out my drank, foo
for the original thread question
i think it depends on the people....its been damaging for myself and a lot of people I know, but some couples claim its great for them so it just varies
im only guessing, but I think the people who it works for started out with a pretty mellow sex routine and decided to "spice it up" together.....as opposed to people who regularly "used" porn on their own coming into the relationship and did everything under the sun in short period of time
i think it depends on the people....its been damaging for myself and a lot of people I know, but some couples claim its great for them so it just varies
im only guessing, but I think the people who it works for started out with a pretty mellow sex routine and decided to "spice it up" together.....as opposed to people who regularly "used" porn on their own coming into the relationship and did everything under the sun in short period of time
Lea
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Dont drank out my drank, foo
it wasnt my personal desire that changed, but more so my reaction to normal shit
first you get to search and choose your flavor for the day.....then every porn vid starts with a teaser....nice outfit, lighting, oil, a lil dance.....(now you're turned on with zero effort) right to head and the main course....not to mention you can just switch at the very second you get a lil bored
we know real sex dont work like that all the time lol....in a busy marriage its even less likely
so the subtle hint at sex or just touching in the dark under the covers wouldnt exactly push that button....thats where reality is distorted and you need "more"
aside from that my biggest problem with it, coincidentally, was drugs......just dont do it
Lea
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Reesey
Real Thugs Eat Green Apple Jolly Ranchers.
Both,
If you partake and your mate does not, (vice versa) one may feel the need to hide that particular part of themselves from the other, which will create issues.
Where as, if you both partake and are secure in such. It is an opportunity to share the experience and "lanks" to some fire sh*t.
We, of course, are the latter as I do indeed partake.
If you partake and your mate does not, (vice versa) one may feel the need to hide that particular part of themselves from the other, which will create issues.
Where as, if you both partake and are secure in such. It is an opportunity to share the experience and "lanks" to some fire sh*t.
We, of course, are the latter as I do indeed partake.
so what if a female NEVER down to do anything even remotely related to porn?
Reesey
Real Thugs Eat Green Apple Jolly Ranchers.
and you are into it, right? Why are you with her?
I know that sounds horrid, but life is too short to be with someone that doesn't allow for you or make it comfortable for you to be whom YOU are.
Porn may seem like a small "compromise" but if it is so small why do I have to give it up? Why can't it be accepted?
Smh, ya'll know not to ask me these types of questions.. hahaha
i mean, i guess you dont "know" these things until a situation presents itself
i can only imagine a chick initially being turned off at this being revealed on the first date
Reesey
Real Thugs Eat Green Apple Jolly Ranchers.
I can understand that and you are not that invested on a first date. But revealing true selves is what we are supposed to be doing when we are "dating" is it not? So it should come up eventually.
right, so if she checks off lets say 4/5 boxes for you, with the last box being her understanding you like to fap...is that a dealbreaker?
Reesey
Real Thugs Eat Green Apple Jolly Ranchers.
Not if she understands that it will be done.
You don't have to partake with me but you have to accept that it is apart of who I BE. ;-)
If ur sex life becomes dependent on it its definitely a problem
If ur gettin more porn than actual physical intimacy from your partner its a problem
If shes into midget porn call the wedding off
If ur gettin more porn than actual physical intimacy from your partner its a problem
If shes into midget porn call the wedding off
IP360
Doctorate & Ph.D in Bootyology
It all boils down how open you and your s/o are wit each other.
If they're a prude about porn....won't work. I tried that wit my ex...GRHS. But all I got from her was "why do we need porn to get turned on, when we got each other" arguments.
Dealt wit one that was all the way in wit playing porn as an enhancer. Definitely made her more freakier. Too much porn tho is damaging when you start to believe that's how your real sex life is suppose to be.
If they're a prude about porn....won't work. I tried that wit my ex...GRHS. But all I got from her was "why do we need porn to get turned on, when we got each other" arguments.
Dealt wit one that was all the way in wit playing porn as an enhancer. Definitely made her more freakier. Too much porn tho is damaging when you start to believe that's how your real sex life is suppose to be.
Reesey
Real Thugs Eat Green Apple Jolly Ranchers.
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Dont drank out my drank, foo
like the example I gave
most regular folk (not ya'll) aint gettin too small lingerie, a twerk show, and nasty enthusiastic head to start shit off every time
its always hot, always changing, the lighting is perfect you can see everything, she's giving the helpless whore eyes and moaning like she's never been touched before, he force feeds her until she throws up....she thanks him and shakes while she touches herself like she really loved that shit and continues.....
now any and all of that shit happens in real life, true enough.....but it damn sure aint all the time or even regular for a married couple
lots of cold starts and discussing sex before hand like its a round of golf lol......one waiting for the other to initiate and vice versa....fatigue......feelings....athletic abilities (or lack).......