i wouldn't care.
my wife's longest term ex-boyfriend was invited. he declined to come,
i think they were together like 4 years, he was her first n all that....
but his mother was there, and his little sister was one of my wife's bride maids.....
i didn't see the problem. i actually thought he was a jerk for not coming...
he hit her with some ole
"how can i watch the one i let get away marry another man?"
never thought twice about it