COMMUNITY Date night etiquette. Checking in

[SeaSnake]

I was looking through comments and folks were saying she should’ve tried to check in since the guy didn’t and that she really didn’t want to go. But I’m the type that check in I thought checking in the day of was common courtesy at our age. Anything can come up.

 

[Love]

Yes I agree with her

 

[AP4.0]

ehhh...i agree she could've reached out but at the same time, i think the dude should still set the expectation and reach out to her to make sure everything was good to go

 

[loud-ninja]

I always confirm the day of just to make sure her plans havent changed.

The girl in the post should have just confirmed if the dude didnt. She probably doesnt want to look like she is doing the chasing but that is stupid to me. We dont know each other, so you are dealing with 2 different communication styles.

At a certain point, an adult needs to be an adult. Hell, I confirm plans with friends on the day of our gathering.

 

[IP360]

It falls on both parties.

She couldve checked to make sure they was still on for that night. Possibly a simple text the night b4.

But since he invited her...then HE should've been the one to follow-up wit her during the week. Careless assumption on his part.

 

[Tayboo]

Bad communication on both their parts. Yes he should've confirmed day of, but she could have sent a text asking if they were still on since she hadn't heard from him.

 

[devlyn]

I agree it was both of their faults. Both should've follow up with each other. When was the last time they had talked before the date? Because some where in the conversation someone should've been like ready to see you tonight or something of the sort.