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Couple that saved over $1 million to quit work in their 30s say this is the hardest part

you can do what you want then....within the budget.

mostly you have to plan if you not at the retirement point,. but if you are free of having to work.....what plans do you need?

thats not what i got from the article tbh

seems like eventually, they'll be squeezing ketchup packets into the bottle just to save a dollar

im as frugal as they come but got damn, that end of the spectrum aint no way to live either

so you save all this money just to not work before the age of 40 to just chill in smallville,usa everyday until you die???

that sounds miserable af
 
You know why old people die not long after retiring? Cuz they have no purpose in life. Not contributing to society anymore and no structure.
Or its because they old.

Let me see some facts about dying soon after retiring young

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I'm not impressed or inspired by people who have a pretty good paying job, that save a lot of money by penny pinching. Saving money is important, but not if you do it so you have a pile of money for someone else. I'm not trying to be a millionaire that lives like a low level thousandaire, thats stupid to me.
 
thats not what i got from the article tbh

seems like eventually, they'll be squeezing ketchup packets into the bottle just to save a dollar

im as frugal as they come but got damn, that end of the spectrum aint no way to live either

so you save all this money just to not work before the age of 40 to just chill in smallville,usa everyday until you die???

that sounds miserable af
you are right...but some small city people like their small city.
and sometimes you have to weight the options.
my wife knows a chick.....she doesnt work because her husband said she didnt have to. but they live tight. she home schools the kids.
now while alot of chicks said they want that lifestyle.....they downside of her life is she cant do small things like starbucks.
then they whole shit changes up.... so what is the good point to be?
 
You know why old people die not long after retiring? Cuz they have no purpose in life. Not contributing to society anymore and no structure.
they die because they only lived for someone else....so they lost themselves in their job.
once they retire they dont know what to do.....as if the world aint full of shit to do.
 
They lived frugally and saved for years to get the million. That took a ton if discipline and determination. I don't think they plan on blowing it now. Not for me but interesting.
 
they die because they only lived for someone else....so they lost themselves in their job.
once they retire they dont know what to do.....as if the world aint full of shit to do.
You know how many retirees I've met who find odd goofy jobs to do after they retire cuz their life has no meaning or purpose anymore? A lot. Pleasure with no work is a recipe for misery
 
You know how many retirees I've met who find odd goofy jobs to do after they retire cuz their life has no meaning or purpose anymore? A lot. Pleasure with no work is a recipe for misery
only for those that need validation.

validation is misery.....thats why so many people hate there jobs. but they need the income but they also dont try to leave either.
thats is also why alot of managers seem to not praise but so many good workers. they understand the people who need validation and who will work harder to get that.

so when people retire...they no longer feel validated. even if they are married....the spouse just doesnt do it enough or has what they seek.

but if you are happy within......you only validate yourself. and you also understand that jobs aint loyal and so you try to not need them.

other than what may seems like a symbionic relationship is really just one sided
 
only for those that need validation.

validation is misery.....thats why so many people hate there jobs. but they need the income but they also dont try to leave either.
thats is also why alot of managers seem to not praise but so many good workers. they understand the people who need validation and who will work harder to get that.

so when people retire...they no longer feel validated. even if they are married....the spouse just doesnt do it enough or has what they seek.

but if you are happy within......you only validate yourself. and you also understand that jobs aint loyal and so you try to not need them.

other than what may seems like a symbionic relationship is really just one sided
I work like a mf. You need shit done and done 100% so you can rest easy you call BA baby cuz I get shit DONE! I don't need you to tell me awesome job bro! I know I did a fucking awesome job it's what I do. And it dont matter what the task, it WILL be done. I ain't no special mf there is billions like me, and billions of lazy mf sho wanna play all day but still get paid.
 
I work like a mf. You need shit done and done 100% so you can rest easy you call BA baby cuz I get shit DONE! I don't need you to tell me awesome job bro! I know I did a fucking awesome job it's what I do. And it dont matter what the task, it WILL be done. I ain't no special mf there is billions like me, and billions of lazy mf sho wanna play all day but still get paid.
and you work hard why?
 
It's a desire deep inside to be productive and contribute to society as a whole. I work for us all not just myself.
but if your not productive or contributing to society does that mean you dont have purpose? are you now less than?
what if you became handicapped? does that now exclude dying when retiring because now its a reason beyond your control?
or do you now have a new purpose?
 
but if your not productive or contributing to society does that mean you dont have purpose? are you now less than?
what if you became handicapped? does that now exclude dying when retiring because now its a reason beyond your control?
or do you now have a new purpose?
No I suppose I could contribute in other ways but I would 100% have to stay productive or my mind gon be shot. I enjoy expending the mental and physical energy in that process. I would probably become an insomniac from all the pent up energy.

I'd prolly shoot myself if I became handicap.
 
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