Naw.
I'd just tell if or when she heals from that pain...then maybe we can move forward.
ESPN's very own Adam Shefter went thru this wit his wife. His late husband died on 9/11. It was years later after that when they started dating, then got married.
She told him if he's planning to have a future wit her, he's gonna have to move in the house she and her late husband lived in. I think he also mentioned how she wasn't removing any of his stuff. Kept it the way it was b4 he died. Like having his pics, clothes, whateva items he had still there.
He said it was a struggle at 1st, but they learned to compromise. Dunno what its like now. I mean they're still in that house. Adam actually wrote a letter to late husband telling him how he's gonna take care of her and the kids they had together.