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CNN: Cuckolding can be positive for some couples, study says
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some fellas would've regretted not smashing that slim thick chickRegret?
TF u think this is woman??? Cuckolding is a front for gay behaviour. The man wants to see the dude in action just as much, if not more than the woman.
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bae, the thread was about cuckolding. it was already degraded. didn't do shit. BNE is innocent!
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What man would want to watch his woman get fucked by another man? LMAO. That's some weirdo shit.
(CNN) In our current political climate, the term "cuck" -- short for "cuckservative" -- has become an insult of the so-called alt-right, aimed at men they view as spineless and emasculated. The slur has its roots in the concept of cuckolding, or having an adulterous partner.
But, according to a recent study by David Ley, Justin Lehmiller and the writer Dan Savage, acting on cuckolding fantasies can be a largely positive experience for many couples, and hardly a sign of weakness.
References to cuckolding appear in literature as early as the 13th century, usually in the form of male characters who fear that their child has been sired by another man during an act of infidelity. Today, however, cuckolding has become fetishized into a powerful sexual fantasy for some men, who get aroused by the idea of their romantic partner engaging in sexual activity with someone else. Women also share this fantasy, but less so than men.
"This fantasy has been around as long as marriage and sexuality," said Ley, whose book "Insatiable Wives" addresses cuckolding in heterosexual couples. "But we're hearing more and more about it these days, and more people are rejecting the social stigma against this fantasy."
Indeed, the numbers suggest that cuckolding, or at least thinking about it, is more common than you might imagine. For his forthcoming book, "Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help Improve Your Sex Life," Lehmiller surveyed thousands of Americans and found that 58% of men and about a third of women had fantasized about cuckolding.
"Men are more likely to fantasize about cuckolding, and they do it more often -- but there are a number of women who have these fantasies as well, which points to the need for more research focused on women's cuckolding desires," Lehmiller said.
Initially viewed as a heterosexual phenomenon, it's increasingly prevalent among gay men, too. "I'd long gotten letters from straight couples into cuckolding (usually initiated by the husband), but none from gay couples until after marriage equality began to gather steam," explained writer and activist Savage. To learn more, Savage joined with Lehmiller and Ley for a study of cuckolding fantasies and experiences in 580 gay men.
Their findings suggest that there are similarities between the way gay and straight men view cuckolding, but clear differences, too. Most notably, interracial and BDSM themes don't appear to be as common in gay men's cuckolding fantasies as they are among heterosexual men. The motivations behind these fantasies may also be different.
Part of what makes cuckolding arousing for heterosexual men is that they tend to view it as a taboo act. "In a society or culture that idealizes monogamy, the cuckold fantasy is a current narrative that is available to people to conceptualize their sexual fantasies," said Ley.
But that may not be an influence for everyone. "For gay men, cuckolding isn't quite as taboo because the norm of lifelong monogamy isn't so strong in the LGBT community; however, it can still be arousing for a number of other reasons," said Lehmiller. For instance, fantasies about voyeurism and group sex seem to overlap with those about cuckolding in these men. "It's a sexual desire that can be easily customized to meet a wide range of sexual needs and desires, whether it's taboo sex, novelty, voyeurism or something else," he told me.
And the emotions surrounding seeing your partner with someone else can add to the turn-on, explained Savage. "It's not cuckolding if there isn't an element of humiliation, degradation or denial," he said. "Our erotic imaginations have the ability to turn shame lemons into delicious kink lemonade."
As a sex therapist, one of the more intriguing findings from this study involves the impact of cuckolding on relationships.
"Overall, our research found that for the most part, cuckolding tends to be a positive fantasy and behavior," said Ley. "It doesn't appear to be evidence of disturbance, of an unhealthy relationship, or of disregard for one's partner." But there's an important caveat, added Lehmiller. "We found several personality factors that predict more positive experiences acting on cuckolding fantasies. For those who have a lot of relationship anxiety or abandonment issues, who lack intimacy and communication, and who aren't careful, detail-oriented planners, acting on a consensual non-monogamy fantasy could very well be a negative experience," he said. "In other words, not everyone who has a cuckolding fantasy should think about acting on it."
Remember that sometimes just sharing a sexy thought can be arousing enough -- you don't have to follow through. If you are thinking about acting on a cuckolding fantasy, it's worth stepping back first and making sure your relationship is in a good place and that you have strong sexual communication skills.
"For men and couples considering the issue of cuckolding, it's important there be honesty, integrity, communication, mutuality and shared values," advised Ley. "I've seen men who try to trick their wives into cuckolding them, and this never, ever ends up well."
For couples who do decide to move forward, it's important to take things slow. "The reality of watching your spouse have sex with someone else -- or knowing they're doing it, if you're not there -- is often very different than the fantasy. It can dredge up powerful emotions, so take baby steps and keep talking and communicating," said Savage. "That said, the rewards can be amazing, according to couples who have successfully folded cuckold play into their relationships."
https://www.cnn.com/2018/01/25/health/cuckolding-sex-kerner/index.html
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So I had a friend that I chilled with all throughout high school. And he got together with this really cute chick that I was acquainted with. I used to chill with dude a lot and so every now and again his chick would be around too.
After High School, they move in together. We kept chilling and one day they invited a bunch of people over to party. Cool. Im there. We get to chilling, joking, drinking. Bunch of people there. I kept seeing his girl looking at me but I was like nah im tripping.
Night keeps going, im drunk as fuck. Everybody got to leaving and my boy told me I could stay over. I was like cool. People bounce, 3 of us still chilling, short time later his girl leaves the room.
About 10 minutes later he straight up asked if I wanted to smash his girl. That shit shocked the fuck out of me. I laughed it off like yo stop playing. Dude got mad serious and was like nah man im serious, she been wanting you to smash for a long time.
Man that shit made me so uncomfortable. Now his girl was very sexy and could easily get the dick. But the fact that my boy asked me to smash her? Shit had me paranoid as fuck.
But it got worse.
I told dude nah Im good, and then he said like "if me being there makes you uncomfortable I wont even watch."
Man the fact that he was gonna be there didnt even cross my mind. That shit fucked me up and sobered me up quick as fuck.
Told him nah I was good, and that I was good enough to drive now and bounced.
After that we quickly stopped chilling and at this point havent talked in years. Last I heard they got married.
After High School, they move in together. We kept chilling and one day they invited a bunch of people over to party. Cool. Im there. We get to chilling, joking, drinking. Bunch of people there. I kept seeing his girl looking at me but I was like nah im tripping.
Night keeps going, im drunk as fuck. Everybody got to leaving and my boy told me I could stay over. I was like cool. People bounce, 3 of us still chilling, short time later his girl leaves the room.
About 10 minutes later he straight up asked if I wanted to smash his girl. That shit shocked the fuck out of me. I laughed it off like yo stop playing. Dude got mad serious and was like nah man im serious, she been wanting you to smash for a long time.
Man that shit made me so uncomfortable. Now his girl was very sexy and could easily get the dick. But the fact that my boy asked me to smash her? Shit had me paranoid as fuck.
But it got worse.
I told dude nah Im good, and then he said like "if me being there makes you uncomfortable I wont even watch."
Man the fact that he was gonna be there didnt even cross my mind. That shit fucked me up and sobered me up quick as fuck.
Told him nah I was good, and that I was good enough to drive now and bounced.
After that we quickly stopped chilling and at this point havent talked in years. Last I heard they got married.
KingFreemanBurnerAccount
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I'll fuck a dudes bitch as long as he not there watching on some weirdo shit.
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I know some black swingers that are into watching their woman get fucked by other men
DOS_patos
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this nigga got a burner account....LMAO
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