ARE THERE LEVELS TO CHEATING? What are the levels? Are some levels worse than others?
Can some be forgiven before others?
Can some be forgiven before others?
Cheating: “it’s level to this sh*t”, says 1/2 of ABW
- Thread starter Eartha Clit
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Dont drank out my drank, foo
absolutely
a drunk quickie at a party on girls night out is just not the same as you hittin up an old friend online and meeting him while im at work
I think knowing the person definitely matters/cuts deeper
I also think emotional cheating is the worst above all.....to use somebody to get off is one thing....maybe i been slippin, not hittin it right or not at all
but to have another relationship going and still look in that persons face every day....knowing you're done and have basically moved on in every way....thats fucked up and cant be reconciled
a drunk quickie at a party on girls night out is just not the same as you hittin up an old friend online and meeting him while im at work
I think knowing the person definitely matters/cuts deeper
I also think emotional cheating is the worst above all.....to use somebody to get off is one thing....maybe i been slippin, not hittin it right or not at all
but to have another relationship going and still look in that persons face every day....knowing you're done and have basically moved on in every way....thats fucked up and cant be reconciled
IP360
Doctorate & Ph.D in Bootyology
Depends on the relationship
What's going on in the relationship
Who being neglected
Is it a local or long distance relationship
What kinda circumstances are involved
Etc...etc.
I've seen folks say cheating is wrong, yet understand why that person cheated. Shyt ain't always black & white.
The "normal" talkin point regarding why men & women cheat is "Men cheat for physical reasons, women cheat for emotional reasons". Not always the case. Plus most folks will probably go thru some kinda dark period where both parties aren't clicking. It varies
Forgiving is the easy part. It's the FORGETTING that's the hardest. Things could be going well and back on track UNTIL, the thought of them cheating crosses your mind again. Mood will change at the snap of a finger. And don't let an argument start up. Best believe that shyt WILL get brought up.
What's going on in the relationship
Who being neglected
Is it a local or long distance relationship
What kinda circumstances are involved
Etc...etc.
I've seen folks say cheating is wrong, yet understand why that person cheated. Shyt ain't always black & white.
The "normal" talkin point regarding why men & women cheat is "Men cheat for physical reasons, women cheat for emotional reasons". Not always the case. Plus most folks will probably go thru some kinda dark period where both parties aren't clicking. It varies
Forgiving is the easy part. It's the FORGETTING that's the hardest. Things could be going well and back on track UNTIL, the thought of them cheating crosses your mind again. Mood will change at the snap of a finger. And don't let an argument start up. Best believe that shyt WILL get brought up.