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When Dedra Phillips was planning her daughter Nia’s Sweet 16 party, she was consistently asked, “am I going to get a car?” But instead of buying Nia a new set of wheels, Phillips surprised her daughter with something that could take her further — a business.

“I thought to myself, I can always buy her a car. A business, however, could teach her many valuable lessons such as; how to lead, build a vision, time-management, team building, marketing, budgeting, investing, managing finances, customer service, and so much more. To be 16-years-old and learn these types of lessons is invaluable. It will serve her for the rest of her life. That is why I chose a business,” Phillips told Black Enterprise.

The business idea didn’t come from Phillips. It actually stemmed from a text conversation where Nia told her mother she wanted to sell lip gloss after watching a YouTube video and learning how to make it.

Phillips challenged her daughter to do more than simply sell lip gloss and instead turn it into a brand that could grow. The two came up with a brand name and products, but after that, they didn’t talk about it much.

A few months later when Nia’s Sweet 16 rolled around, she didn’t see a fancy car with a giant red bow waiting for her. Instead she was surprised with a table with her image and the brandname she and her mother came up with, alongside bottles of branded lip gloss and a full website ready to go.

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No, I didn’t get a car for my birthday, but as one of my friends at the party said, ‘You got a whole business for your 16th birthday, you could buy your own car soon',” says Nia on her website.

Phillips believes in supporting her daughter’s dreams and showing her that there there are multiple ways to achieve success.

“I want Nia to understand that she has options. If entrepreneurship is the road she wants to take. I will be her No. 1 supporter and the first to invest in her vision and future,” says Phillips to Black Enterprise. She continued, “We don’t see this enough in the Black community. Many of us are taught to go to college and get a good job. That’s not a bad thing. Even if you have a job, multiple streams of income are necessary in today’s economy.”

Ni’Abri Beauty carries an array of beauty products, from lip gloss to 3D lashes to lip stick.

You can find out more about the brand and how you can support the newly minted teenpreneur, Nia, at niabribeauty.com
 
I remember a lyric not verbatim from The Chef saying "I wanna hit my people with land" for their bdays and shit..this is the epitome of that meaning!
 
I ain't mad at that, but at sixteen I'd rather have the car. Imagine that to begin with, to be expecting someone to get you a car at 16. That shit in itself is a win for the mother, your child expecting some shit like that. I was hoping for more than one gift for Christmas at 16.
 
I ain't mad at that, but at sixteen I'd rather have the car. Imagine that to begin with, to be expecting someone to get you a car at 16. That shit in itself is a win for the mother, your child expecting some shit like that. I was hoping for more than one gift for Christmas at 16.
nigga she about to be able to buy her own car.

short term versus longterm AND financial freedom as a young adult.
put the bottle down homie.

you still my niggah
 
all i know is imma support.

wifey loves glosses and shit.....imma have her do a trial then stock up.
 
Great move by the mom. Also great to see the daughter sees the value in what her mother did for her and those who that business may employ one day.
 
We need to make this a standard in the Black community.

How do we make this a standard in the Black community?

You get a whole business for your 16th birthday. Where the only question their peers ask them is what kinda business did your parents get you?

Imagine if damn near EVERY Black child was some kind of entrepreneur by the age of 16. That would be so empowering for every future generation after them. Even if the parents aren't able to start a business for your child an organization could potentially step in and assist with that endeavor.
 
We need to make this a standard in the Black community.

How do we make this a standard in the Black community?

You get a whole business for your 16th birthday. Where the only question their peers ask them is what kinda business did your parents get you?

Imagine if damn near EVERY Black child was some kind of entrepreneur by the age of 16. That would be so empowering for every future generation after them. Even if the parents aren't able to start a business for your child an organization could potentially step in and assist with that endeavor.
This is always kinda been my goal.
But the kids won't know if the patent doesn't teach the financial freedom and ownership at home from a young age.
So if the adults don't see the importance why should the kids.

If the parent is OK being a worker and don't want better for their child...why would the child see above being a worker?

Financial freedom may not come in our youth for us to enjoy. But wouldn't it be just as great to see the child you raised doing what you couldn't do?

To put things into perspective. I was just in Genoa, Italy this past weekend. I connected with a few local Africans.
They sailed across the water in a filled to the brim boat...just to get to Italy and work as housekeepers and parking attendants. But they are working. Earning.

A lot of other shit was said...but these guys look up to us. Like we are their dream of what can be. Its more of them wanting to be like us than yall realize.

So for us to not be what we can be....
Just the fact they was all happy I stayed at a hotel they worked at. To see a black american who can do what white people do at high levels to them is hope.

We are the hope for millions. NBA , NFL, mlb, rappers...and business men.

Our own businesses to past to the youngins will free us in ways yet seen.

Ain't like we don't have it in us. We all have that "it". Most only need the belief they can do it and monetize it.
And its many who will help.
Just try to ask. You'd be surprised at what can happen when you take the first step.
 
But I am writing a very long multi thread post about what we standardize, nipsey, Kodak, Lauren, idolism, oldheads, pride and self preservation.

We need to have very tough talks. Nipseys death showed our underbelly. And its not pretty.

I'm taking my time with it. Hopefully it will hit the front page.
 
Why must it be optimistic?
We need to teach our kids about patience and long term thinking.
Working hard for 100% and not working hard for .5% because we want to stunt first.
people complain that college makes you pay tuition to study a major chosen by an 18/19 year old who dont really know shit for shit about life. I'm supposed to believe a 16 year old that had a parent capable of blessing her with a car for her Birthday, is the type of child thats hard working and fiscally responsible?...

like I said, if we are being optimistic..aight..
 
people complain that college makes you pay tuition to study a major chosen by an 18/19 year old who dont really know shit for shit about life. I'm supposed to believe a 16 year old that had a parent capable of blessing her with a car for her Birthday, is the type of child that hard working and fiscally responsible?...

like I said, if we are being optimistic..aight..
Or maybe your used to thinking in a realm where this would be optimistic.
We are not all the same people. We all learn different and are inspired by different shit.
I can not say what someone will do because of someone else with no connection and with no background on either.

But even if its wishful thinking....the business will give a car and she'll still have the business.

Give her a car and no business...then she's being a teen but looking for a job in two yrs.
 
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