Gray Matter
Active Member
If there is one thing I hate is when people say that they don't mind if people date/marry out as long as they don't try to justify it by saying something bad about BW/BM.
If you have a non-black partner and that really wasn't your preference but there was something about BM or BW that make it difficult for you, you should be able to voice what that thing was. If there's merit to it, lot of other blacks will be saying similar things. And if there is merit, then BW or Bm can try and change and there can be less IR dating/marriage over the long term.
If you have a non-black partner and that really wasn't your preference but there was something about BM or BW that make it difficult for you, you should be able to voice what that thing was. If there's merit to it, lot of other blacks will be saying similar things. And if there is merit, then BW or Bm can try and change and there can be less IR dating/marriage over the long term.