Uh...
As far as his approach to ppl, some (women) may think it comes off as a lil bit of flirting. Ppl sometimes confuse the act being nice with being flirtatious. The thing is, they might find your speech, your intellect, your voice, your demeanor attractive. This can cause short term deliriousness and bad interpretation when that gentleman does what he does, be his regular self, nice or polite to you or whatever, which in turn causes women to think he might be trying to indirectly "shoot his shot".
But yea...
You gotta do more than type some funky ass mfn dots to make me lust for you or feel like you shootin a pass at me. The fack lol? And don't do well with hidden msgs and alla dat. So nah, I don't agree with that theory.