How is using someone for an experience different than using them for love or children, which are also experiences? I don’t follow the separate buckets you are placing things in@Rubato
A good explanation of what I was getting at yesterday and my confusion and curiosity is.
Say theres a woman, who is success, able, and intelligent.
She meets a guy that she is smart enough to know is a guy who is going to lead her into things, she foresees this
This things happen, she experiences them, and continues to be with him, never tallying the affect of him in her life
There is no purpose for this man in her life, he is not meant for love, he is not meant for children, he is not meant for validation, he is purely an experience
My confusion is, with people who are ignorant to how life comes together. I get why you go through this experience
But for the mindful person, how do they experience this. Like
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How do you mindlyful experience this, because I feel like understanding this. Is the only way I will be able to enjoy life.
So I am seeking advice from an individual who is like me that understands and has mastered this
That’s a great great point, in that, it’s me, that doesn’t see experiences as valuable as the other things. And my flaw in understanding this is that some people value experiences at the same clip as I value those things. So for me to enjoy such things, I have to find value in experiences.How is using someone for an experience different than using them for love or children, which are also experiences? I don’t follow the separate buckets you are placing things in
Should some shit be off limits for black comedians?
Should some shit be off limits for black comedians?
Facts lol.He can be offensive as he wants to be as long as it’s funny
Super offensive plus unfunny is a cardinal sin
I need to hear the set up for the joke to know if it was funny
Another broad bemoaning the club experience in <current year>
One of the last things she said about being shitfaced in a diner with no cameras in your face catching you acting an ass is real shit tho.
Priceless.How much is the prize?
This year and the next one.What year?
thank you!
Another broad bemoaning the club experience in <current year>
One of the last things she said about being shitfaced in a diner with no cameras in your face catching you acting an ass is real shit tho.