NSFW After Dark Thread
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RusselWilsonJr
Who do you think you are? I am
In relationships..Nah, I think it’s been equal, up until and including when we got tired of fucking each other…
but I have had sex with women that you can say had a higher sex drive than me, in that it didn’t take much to have sex with them and they had alot of it with different men. I think I used some, discernment.. when it came to choosing sexual partners..they just just had to find you attractive and an opportunity be present.
And..they..they liked being treated like sluts. I’m not a woman so I don’t know if it requires a high sex drive to desire to be slutted out..like treating them respectfully in the pursuit of sex turned them off. As a man I’m assuming it takes a higher sex drive to only want it that way.
I mean, I like some degrading shit but i gotta be really horny to want it or get off on it, so to want it all the time..I’m assuming that requires a high sex drive.
Speaking as a woman @Tayboo does that have some validity to it?
18lack
How Come She Don’t Want Me 😔
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Tayboo
There she go🥰
I don't think wanting to be slutted out means you have a higher then average sex drive.
RusselWilsonJr
Who do you think you are? I am
This is why it’s such a great thing that we have an opportunity to dialogue between sexes. That clears up a big misconception I’ve always had.
Rubato
it only matters to us
Hmm…idk I feel like my shit is adaptive in a way…I can always match the energy
Mr BFK
Active Member
I can genuinely think of 2 women I remember who were def on a level
1st one used to want it so frequently to the point she had me literally bussing air
so at times it wasn't a pleasurable experience (afterwards) haha
2nd one use to want to lay up the entire weekend just to get it in........I was in my early 20s so I was still learning how important it was to manage ur time with ur responsibilities
shorty was literally draining me.....I was losing weight and falling asleep at work
used to make the mistake of letting her convince to go to her spot right after work on a Fri...........mayne I would be leaving her room the following Monday with my original work clothes that I wore on Fri SMH
as a matter of fact I think even I stopped playing my intramural flag football season early just cuz I was so gassed from dealing with her
Mr BFK
Active Member
but 1 thing I noticed after looking back
it seemed like the high sex drive with both of them didn't come from a good place
the 1st one had a lot of personal trauma in her past.........I think she used sex as a way to cope with her internal issues
was fun at 1st, but then the other issues in the relationship created stress to where the sex could no longer hide or compensate for the real problems
the 2nd one, me and her had serious communication issues during our relationship
we would have a disagreement over something serious, and her solution instead of addressing it always resulted in us having sex
as a young man u don't really sweat it cuz u getting that action
but as a mature man u can't be satisfied will using sex as ur basis of intimacy to sustain a long term relationship
it seemed like the high sex drive with both of them didn't come from a good place
the 1st one had a lot of personal trauma in her past.........I think she used sex as a way to cope with her internal issues
was fun at 1st, but then the other issues in the relationship created stress to where the sex could no longer hide or compensate for the real problems
the 2nd one, me and her had serious communication issues during our relationship
we would have a disagreement over something serious, and her solution instead of addressing it always resulted in us having sex
as a young man u don't really sweat it cuz u getting that action
but as a mature man u can't be satisfied will using sex as ur basis of intimacy to sustain a long term relationship
I really never met anyone that had a high sex drive and was into kinky shit that didn't come from fucked up, man or woman.
I met a 45 year old guy at an orgy that beat cancer. When he found out he cancer, he told his wife if he beat this, he gonna fuck 100 women. His wife thought it was a joke, he was dead ass.
Beat cancer, divorced his wife, fucked 159 women in 2 years after beating cancer. He said when he found out he had cancer, he realized hated being a family man and cancer motivated him to live his life on his terms.
I met a woman at a dungeon, she's into extreme rough shit and group sex. Found out that her mother was mentally, emotionally and physically abusive to her father. One day, her mother was talking that shit, her father knocked her mother out and left for a month. She hates her mother and affair to be anything like her, so she submits herself to very rough BDSM.
I'm sure there's normal people out there that never had shit happen to them to influence their extreme sexuality and sex drive.
Hmm...
I met a 45 year old guy at an orgy that beat cancer. When he found out he cancer, he told his wife if he beat this, he gonna fuck 100 women. His wife thought it was a joke, he was dead ass.
Beat cancer, divorced his wife, fucked 159 women in 2 years after beating cancer. He said when he found out he had cancer, he realized hated being a family man and cancer motivated him to live his life on his terms.
I met a woman at a dungeon, she's into extreme rough shit and group sex. Found out that her mother was mentally, emotionally and physically abusive to her father. One day, her mother was talking that shit, her father knocked her mother out and left for a month. She hates her mother and affair to be anything like her, so she submits herself to very rough BDSM.
I'm sure there's normal people out there that never had shit happen to them to influence their extreme sexuality and sex drive.
Hmm...
IP360
Doctorate & Ph.D in Bootyology
Hell yeah!
A few years ago. Chick I was dealing wit advised i should start drinking ginseng just to keep up.
Want to ask the guys a question when yall cuddle or spoon. Đoes that man get to growing and if it does do you go ahead and try and initiate sex or any type of foreplay to get it started?
Scandalust313
Unshakeable Unbreakable Victorious
IP360
Doctorate & Ph.D in Bootyology
Sometimes.
My issue has been HER initiating tho. Seems like she's still on that "I initiated the last time" type deal from how when we 1st started out.
Like in that scenario you posted...for the most part...fo sho. I'll start rubbing the thighs until I slip b/t them. Then go from there.
Now same scenario...she feels it growing on her. Wants to do something. But DON'T initiate shyt. After a few minutes...I just turn my azzz over. When I do that...thats when she plays dumb like "Why you turn over?" Smh.
Man we too grown to be playin those type of games. Been told her if you want it...come get it. Da fucc you tryin to act shy for like we're new to each other? Or act like you waiting for permission?? Lol...smh again.
Mister B. M. Ed.
The Devil’s Greatest Advocate…..
It helps. Nothing perks you up better than booty on ya lil' guy, curled up in the fetal position. It shouts "come get it."
You can't make someone aggressive that ain't got it in them
In this instance I'd say you at fault because you know what it is. Gotta grab her by the pussy cause that's what she likes
No offense to anyone
IP360
Doctorate & Ph.D in Bootyology
Nigga...she was the aggressive type. B4 we made it official...she was aggressive...initiated...etc.
After becoming official...slowly fell back on some "Oh I got him now. My part is done" type deal. We've had multiple discussions about it
Rubato
it only matters to us
Lol she must have realized it’s not a deal breaker for you…and if it is you gotta act like it
Silverfoxx
Bitch mob
I like Turtles.
Can you clarify this. Cause I think i....I..... you know I'll wait for your response
