but if your little sister say she like 20-21 and she meet a dude who like 29 but he got two kids, two different women....shit ain't work out with either....There's a lot of variables.
When you say several how many are we talking. 4 Bms?
If we're talkin about a dude who has a bunch of kids and puts forth no effort to spend time with em or help out financially, then yea he ain't shit.
But if he's a nigga who has 2 BMs and has it set up that he picks both kids up on the weekends and he plays his part as a father, I wouldn't consider homie foul.
you gonna let her gloss over that shit like it's muffin, or you gonna talk to her about what to watch out for in regards to that situation....
if it's something you consider important enough to stress certain factors then it's a red flag....
and the more kids by more women it is, the more of a flag should be....
if my little sister meets a dude who like late 20's early 30's with 5 + kids.....
i don't care how well he taking care of shit....imma tell her that's a MAJOR flag, and tel her to be on cstant guard, cuz niggaz in sitatons like that tend to lie a lot...
that's just how i look at life....
i take kids seriously..i feel you can tell a whole lot about a person based on how they interact with their kids
im ;earning more about myself for the same reason