No, if you love someone, you let them suffer the consequences of their fate in order to take care of those that haven't had a chance.
If momma and daddy fucked around at 18, and struggled all their life then that's on them.
Kids get traumatized by poverty and then believe it's on them to uplift their whole entire bloodline. Then we wonder why we got teenage drug dealers in the 80s after the Civil Rights Generation squandered the sacrifices of their forefathers and foremothers.
There's folks taking care of parents and trying to put their own kids through college.
How you gonna raise a nation of a functional group of people if they are constantly reaching back to take care of motherfuckers that ain't worth it?
Caring for someone is something you do out of your own personal power, generosity and mercy. You do it to temper your own aggression in materialistic pursuits. You do it so you won't become a black hole that only takes.
You don't do it because you love them and you feel obligated.
I say fuck 'em.
Obligation only leads to regret, spitefulness and disappointment.