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It's interesting to sit and listen to a conversation b/t two mothers, and boff'em got a young child. Its low key a competition b/t them of which child does the most "amazing" thing.
 
Yea wind and rain

No hail yet

You?

The wind has been crazy this year.

I was driving from Southern Cali to Vegas last week and there was a sustained 50 mph wind blowing. I could feel that pressure damn near half the trip. I even went through a desert stretch where it turned into a dust storm and the whole world disappeared for like 10 minutes.

I got home to the East Coast the next day and two days later it was like the wind followed my ass across the country.
 
Confidence is weird in a way, when you have genuine confidence, it does the same thing as having no confidence.

When you have a lot of genuine confidence it makes other people feel threatened, and intimidated.

So men always wanna fight you, and women see you as a possible candidate for more than sex, so they become extra guarded as to not appear thoty to something that could be special.

Same thing if you have no confidence, other men try to dominate you so men wanna fight you, women think you’re beneath them so they are more gaurded so you don’t dare shoot your shot.

It’s different but it oddly feels the same
 
Confidence is weird in a way, when you have genuine confidence, it does the same thing as having no confidence.

When you have a lot of genuine confidence it makes other people feel threatened, and intimidated.

So men always wanna fight you, and women see you as a possible candidate for more than sex, so they become extra guarded as to not appear thoty to something that could be special.

Same thing if you have no confidence, other men try to dominate you so men wanna fight you, women think you’re beneath them so they are more gaurded so you don’t dare shoot your shot.

It’s different but it oddly feels the same

The beauty in confidence is to not give a fuck either way

The right people will come…the wrong ones will leave
 
The beauty in confidence is to not give a fuck either way

The right people will come…the wrong ones will leave
you have a different way of looking at confidence than me. Ion believe confidence means you’re immune to shit like that, you’re still human. Shit will still affect you, you just have a belief that there’s more to life than the current moment. And that allows it to not hang with you long. Where as low confidence, you’re more than likely to let shit hang with you long because of the feeling that every moment is as important as the next and you can’t win. At least in my mind, you may see it differently.
 
you have a different way of looking at confidence than me. Ion believe confidence means you’re immune to shit like that, you’re still human. Shit will still affect you, you just have a belief that there’s more to life than the current moment. And that allows it to not hang with you long. Where as low confidence, you’re more than likely to let to hang with you long because of the feeling that every moment is as important as the next and you can’t win. At least in my mind, you may see it differently.

I never said confidence means your immune…

Things will affect a confident person as much as anyone else….but the effect of true confidence is understanding your worth, individuality and holding yourself accountable for YOUR life and decisions.

Some are strong in some areas and weaker in others. But a generally confident person will always seek a secure, and truthful sense of self instead of allowing victim hood to run their lives…..some people love to play victim.

A confident person wouldn’t
 
I never said confidence means your immune…

Things will affect a confident person as much as anyone else….but the effect of true confidence is understanding your worth, individuality and holding yourself accountable for YOUR life and decisions.

Some are strong in some areas and weaker in others. But a generally confident person will always seek a secure, and truthful sense of self instead of allowing victim hood to run their lives…..some people love to play victim.

A confident person wouldn’t
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