konceptjones
The one between three and three.
That's not true at all because you keep discountin' the social and psychological aspect of sex and male-female courtin'. If it were as simple as 'just go to a prostitute' there'd be far fewer rapes.
I addressed that already: These new niggas are a part of a generation that has been told that there are no losers, everybody is a winner, and everyone deserves a trophy just for trying.
Let that sink in for a moment before we move on from here.
... Now, apply that way of thinking to the interaction between the sexes at a young age. If you have been raised to believe that everyone is worthy just for trying, then how do you imagine they would feel when they're rejected because the opposite sex finds them unworthy of their time and attention? Back inna day, a lot of dudes aspired to date the fine chick, but we were also grounded in a reality that let you know that, while you may desire her, she may not desire you... and that's fine because there's a chick near you that's feelin' you; just open your eyes and take a look around.
These new niggas have been fed lies about the world we live in from an early age. They're raised to feel that they're entitled to whatever it is they desire and they can't function if that doesn't happen because they were never taught how to lose. They are so fixated on the "hot chick" because she's the prize in everyone's eyes that they don't realize that the chick that's on equal footing as they are, sitting next to them in 6th period Physics is feelin him. Nah, 'cause she ain't the prize, Amy the popular chick is the prize.
They have these completely unrealistic expectations about what dating and relationships are like and it's because their perception of the world is built about everyone being winners.