2026: Back to the randomness

The question said:
I get it tho, a lot of the parents doing that shit came from a generation of parents raising them that were lowlkey jealous of them and went out of their way not to celebrate their accomplishments. So not only are they doing it for the kids, they are doing it for themselves. That part of them that needs to be healed from that. Healing isn’t always pretty. It ain’t always like Wemby crying on the court. Sometimes it’s a mother screaming at the top of her lungs for her child during graduation, when they school staff just asked them specifically to hold their support until all the kids receive their certificates.
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Very good point. It's still obnoxious.
 
The question said:
I’m at the point of adulting where I immediately disconnect from someone doing childish shit. I’m not waiting for you to grow, im just going to stop fucking with you. I don’t have time for that shit.

Like if I text someone and they take an hour to respond, then i text them immediately back and they take an hour to respond and I text them immediate back and they take 4 hours to respond.

You can take that internet social maneuvers shit and play with some kids. We legit can die tomorrow and you play games with me.
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Bruh, you can't expect people to text you back immediately; their lives do not revolve around your words on a screen. If you want an immediate response, call them. Expecting immediate responses from a text message is self-centered as shit, and then to break communication because someone doesn't meet your selfish expectations is nothing short of childish.

... Respectfully, of course.
 
konceptjones said:
Bruh, you can't expect people to text you back immediately; their lives do not revolve around your words on a screen. If you want an immediate response, call them. Expecting immediate responses from a text message is self-centered as shit, and then to break communication because someone doesn't meet your selfish expectations is nothing short of childish.

... Respectfully, of course.
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I can see how you would view it like that, but I disagree. If you contact me to communicate with me, and I communicate with you. And you take the opportunity to play games with me. We are not doing that.

As an adult, if I contact you, and you communicate with me. And something comes up to where i can’t communicate with you. I respect your time and say I just got into something I’m sorry, I’ll hit you back when I’m free. That’s consideration and something only adults do.
 
The question said:
I can see how you would view it like that, but I disagree. If you contact me to communicate with me, and I communicate with you. And you take the opportunity to play games with me. We are not doing that.

As an adult, if I contact you, and you communicate with me. And something comes up to where i can’t communicate with you. I respect your time and say I just got into something I’m sorry, I’ll hit you back when I’m free. That’s consideration and something only adults do.
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I kind of agree with koncept. If someone texts me, it is a non-urgent matter. If it is urgent, they will either call or text me to call them as soon as I can.

My girl works in the ER. I would never expect her to respond quickly. She responds when she has a break.
 
The question said:
I get it tho, a lot of the parents doing that shit came from a generation of parents raising them that were lowlkey jealous of them and went out of their way not to celebrate their accomplishments. So not only are they doing it for the kids, they are doing it for themselves. That part of them that needs to be healed from that. Healing isn’t always pretty. It ain’t always like Wemby crying on the court. Sometimes it’s a mother screaming at the top of her lungs for her child during graduation, when they school staff just asked them specifically to hold their support until all the kids receive their certificates.
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Dawg

To me

If you doing that shit as a parent, you had low expectations for your child to begin with

I understand this isn't a one sized fits all approach but still
 
Hell, I got a friend who takes mad long to text but I dont get offended because my message is not urgent. Plus, I know how busy she is. Kids, work, her interest outside of work. Sometimes she may forget to reply. I do the same sometimes. Sometimes, I will see a message but can't reply right away or I dont want to start up a convo at that time, so I tell myself I will reply when im free. Most times I remember but there are times I forgot.
 
loud-ninja said:
I kind of agree with koncept. If someone texts me, it is a non-urgent matter. If it is urgent, they will either call or text me to call them as soon as I can.

My girl works in the ER. I would never expect her to respond quickly. She responds when she has a break.
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loud-ninja said:
Hell, I got a friend who takes mad long to text but I dont get offended because my message is not urgent. Plus, I know how busy she is. Kids, work, her interest outside of work. Sometimes she may forget to reply. I do the same sometimes. Sometimes, I will see a message but can't reply right away or I dont want to start up a convo at that time, so I tell myself I will reply when im free. Most times I remember but there are times I forgot.
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I feel you..but
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And I’m from the mind frame where I’m considerate of a lot of shit that bothers other people that don’t bother me. That I make time for to be mindful in the way I deal with them. Like, I once dealt with someone that would call me and not say nothing. Just wanted me on the phone. Which is cool if that’s how you get down.

The same thing could be bad when someone does that and expects you to entertain them. It goes from a quirky niche of who they are, to a disrespect of your time.
 
The question said:
I can see how you would view it like that, but I disagree. If you contact me to communicate with me, and I communicate with you. And you take the opportunity to play games with me. We are not doing that.

As an adult, if I contact you, and you communicate with me. And something comes up to where i can’t communicate with you. I respect your time and say I just got into something I’m sorry, I’ll hit you back when I’m free. That’s consideration and something only adults do.
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Bruh, nobody is playing games with you 'cause they don't respond immediately. That's the shit you gotta remove from your way of looking at this. It's a text, them shits ain't important; you get to 'em when you get to 'em.
 
Fellas, how we feeling about a woman holding us like we the bitch?
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You know how sometimes you smash, and yall relax and you roll to ya side and get a scroll in before you fall asleep and she grab you from behind and hold you like you the bitch?

Pretty cool, or flagrant? Lemme know how you feel
 
Chi-Town B said:


I'll be pissed if my daughter got on the graduation stage and did this bullshit. I don't blame the school for doing what they did.
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This is what happens when stripper/whore/prostitute/sex work culture is normalized and applauded in community

Its over
 
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