Duwop
Sometimes being the hero means saving the villain.
U summed it up right there.people don’t change
A lotta people only know how to be the person they are. And they can''t even recognize the the need to change up. Like they don't understand how them being them has an effect on others.
You kinda just gotta let them be them, and be good with it.
Which you seem to be doing well. I really didn't care when my father passed either. I acknowledged it, but I stopped myself from being emotionally connected to that dude way before he checked out.