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80% of Single Men Are No Longer Interested In Dating, Why?

When I was single...dating was fun. Now...I'm glad I'm in a relationship. B/c being single and dating in this day & age is trash. Social media has played a HUGE part in that. Muthafuccas want the other muthafuccas to jump thru hoops, run thru obstacle courses, and defeat a final boss...just for a few minutes of their time.

A lot of these women can't hold a conversation to save their lives. A lot men have gotten lazy af and don't even put forth the effort. It's terrible all around. Muthafuccas are more concerned wit embarrassing each other, by airing the other person out on social media. All for clicks and likes.

Smh
 
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IP360 said:
When I was single...dating was fun. Now...I'm glad I'm in a relationship. B/c single and dating in this dayb& age is trash. Social media has played a HUGE part in that. Muthafuccas want the othe muthafuccas to jump thru hoops, run thru obstacle courses, and defeat a final boss...just for a few minutes of their time.

A lot of these women can't hold a conversation to save their lives. A lot men have gotten lazy af and don't even put forth the effort. It's terrible all around. Muthafuccas are more concerned wit embarrassing each other, by airing the other person out on social media. All for clicks and likes.

Smh
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Not to mention the desperation
 
Wow, I am glad this thread exists!

Been in a relationship for a month 14 years back(30 today), and have tried a zillion times since then. Nothing worked.
In my opinion, based of Indian women - they have a sense of inflated self. Most of them, since 40% are first gen women to study and work in corporates, they value their independence the most.

When my man said, guys are aiming too high - I self reflected to conclude that I have been such a guy. I have been in a family of more women hence a nice guy - people pleaser was born. As a child I knew, achievements and success could get me married. I am not a hook up kinda guy - pretty religious - but then again seeking God's approval for my basic need to procreate. I am a virgin, graduating from the best school of my country and still, nothing changed.
I tried Bumble, Tinder and Hinge for last 3-4 years and the more I tried the more I felt taking a walk towards my own grave.

Nick Vujicic - a man without arms and legs has a family. Likewise, Jonny with arms and legs will not have a family. We are all born disabled in someway or the other, We ought to accept it. I have. For me my disability is to establish healthy relationships, regardless with who the other person is.

Being hooked to Porn for gratification, I'm really grateful about it. At least I am not frustrated with myself and decisions "civilised" women take over me. Do we become weak for not getting our basic desires on life met? Do we go out and buy sex? Do we just give up on life itself?

If you feel there's something I should change or try out, please respond back.
 
Dating today, especially if you view it mainly through the lenses of social media has become about making sure nobody gets one up on you. People have forgotten the most important part of being in a relationship is actually allowing yourself to be vulnerable. Instead it's a countdown to "who gonna fuck up 1st". And the ever present idea of people never believing they're the reason for or contributed to a failed relationship leads to a lack of self reflection that stunts personal growth
 
j261sins said:
Wow, I am glad this thread exists!

Been in a relationship for a month 14 years back(30 today), and have tried a zillion times since then. Nothing worked.
In my opinion, based of Indian women - they have a sense of inflated self. Most of them, since 40% are first gen women to study and work in corporates, they value their independence the most.

When my man said, guys are aiming too high - I self reflected to conclude that I have been such a guy. I have been in a family of more women hence a nice guy - people pleaser was born. As a child I knew, achievements and success could get me married. I am not a hook up kinda guy - pretty religious - but then again seeking God's approval for my basic need to procreate. I am a virgin, graduating from the best school of my country and still, nothing changed.
I tried Bumble, Tinder and Hinge for last 3-4 years and the more I tried the more I felt taking a walk towards my own grave.

Nick Vujicic - a man without arms and legs has a family. Likewise, Jonny with arms and legs will not have a family. We are all born disabled in someway or the other, We ought to accept it. I have. For me my disability is to establish healthy relationships, regardless with who the other person is.

Being hooked to Porn for gratification, I'm really grateful about it. At least I am not frustrated with myself and decisions "civilised" women take over me. Do we become weak for not getting our basic desires on life met? Do we go out and buy sex? Do we just give up on life itself?

If you feel there's something I should change or try out, please respond back.
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Enjoy this post in TikTok:
 
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orgen said:
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Suffice it to say, even tho this was funny as hell, I agree with glasses dude.
Ask for some head
I bet during the courtship it wasn't no asking
And ol girl in the bottom left tryna shame ol girl in the bottom right talking about her man can't demand and he knows damn well.....bih shut up

Those are two different marriages. Foh

Dwl 😂 my nigga said wtf else y'all got to do during the day
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Oh my god
Nobody is being finessed
I just asked abw a question.
While yall staking out for a gotcha moment?
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Bed$tuy🇭🇹 said:
Oh my god
Nobody is being finessed
I just asked abw a question.
While yall staking out for a gotcha moment?
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I don't think anybody thinks you are trying finesse feelings, moreso the people who make these kinds of videos. It's quite clear that click bait and creating discourse is a money maker on social media...
 
Tayboo said:
I don't think anybody thinks you are trying finesse feelings, moreso the people who make these kinds of videos. It's quite clear that click bait and creating discourse is a money maker on social media...
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Yes, I've noticed. Some of them get fooled as well that's why the folks in the comments were saying it's ai.
I challenge these youtubers all the time. Even Lord Jamar
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