You ever got jumped? Didn't the folks around you ask why you got jumped or what was their beef with you? Ain't you the victim in that situation? Why are they asking that?
Nigga gets robbed in the hood for his jewels: "Damn, nigga! You know better than to be shinin' over that way!"
Nigga gets beatdown/shot at for fuckin another niggas woman: "Nigga you know she had a man/husband! Fuck was you thinking???"
Shit happens all the time. And truthfully, it probably needs to happen more often.
And, let's not paint her as some kind of victim either; she's not. The nigga wasn't trying to push up on her, trying to get in her drawls, making statements about imagining them fucking or what she tastes like or no shit like that. He made a crass statement about an outfit she actually wore on a show that's seen internationally by millions of people. He could have left her out of it and just referenced the type of outfit, but he didn't.
Lol. No I aint never been jumped. Fuck kinda example is that? Lol. I get the point you're trying to make. It's not lost on anybody. It's just a point that's not going to get you the desired results you want and has proven not to.
As far as her being a victim..you can word it however you want. She was on the receiving end of something she didn't want, asked to be stopped, and was done by someone she trusted not to do what was done. There's no cleaning that up no matter what word or phrasing you wanna use. It's still fucked up.