There's a content creator on Youtube who's mentioned on more than one occasion that this could all be put to rest if black women like her were honest about what they really wanted.
He claims that.......due to slavery.........they were never really our women.
We were just forced to be together to breed more slaves.
And that most black women don't really want black men.........they want white men.
They just settle for us........and that's the root cause of their frustration.
Which is the fact that most of them know they can never get a white man........so they're stuck with us because we're the only option they have available.
Now, I'm not naive enough to think that all black women are like this.
But I do believe that there's just enough of them that they could be the root cause of all the problems we're having in terms of so-called gender wars and all the relationship problems that stem from that.
The book he references to explain this is Daughters Of The Trade:
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