Karen Situation or Arrest Worthy?
- Thread starter Goldie
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Not black and white but I think the brother needs therapy.
I understand his frustration and I even understand him thinking spanking is gonna help his kid not use the restroom on himself but what he's missing is spanking a child cause they haven't learned to hold their business or how to alert an adult they have to go to the bathroom isn't something to be punished over as there could legitimately be an issue in that area that needs medical and or mental help
Also yelling to a young child repeatedly to shut up is a sure fire way to encourage that behavior as they grow up and try to establish relationships with other people
Screaming to the top of your lungs to be heard (i.e. just cause you're yelling your point doesn't make you more right) or yelling to someone or is frustration when y'all disagree
I sincerely hope that brother and that child get counseling
I understand his frustration and I even understand him thinking spanking is gonna help his kid not use the restroom on himself but what he's missing is spanking a child cause they haven't learned to hold their business or how to alert an adult they have to go to the bathroom isn't something to be punished over as there could legitimately be an issue in that area that needs medical and or mental help
Also yelling to a young child repeatedly to shut up is a sure fire way to encourage that behavior as they grow up and try to establish relationships with other people
Screaming to the top of your lungs to be heard (i.e. just cause you're yelling your point doesn't make you more right) or yelling to someone or is frustration when y'all disagree
I sincerely hope that brother and that child get counseling
The Lonious Monk
Celestial Souljah
Yelling and hitting a kid over having an accident is nasty work. Unless the kid looked him in his eyes and said "I'm gonna piss and shit on myself just to spite you," I don't see it.
Yeah
I still even see this example of something that's not right developmentally
Don’t like this video
Fuck that guy
But I’m also team mind your business lmao
Fuck that guy
But I’m also team mind your business lmao
I normally don't share with with y'all niggas but I thought this was a good time for story time with AP
Many years ago when I belonged to the streets, I dealt with a young lady that had two young girls
One of her daughters was like maybe 11 but had a bed wetting issue. She definitely wasn't lazy or did it out of defiance but if memory serves, she had an abnormally weak bladder or something. Before this was found to be the cause, her mom tried several therapists and doctors but kept loving her throughout it all
Never yelled at her or made her feel inadequate. Just kept trying to find solutions and continued to pour into her young daughter.
Eventually I think everything just started working as it should and the girl probably don't even remember that being a thing.
This is an area where as parents, people need to remember kids are just small versions of adults. They come with a bunch of problems as well they are still trying to figure out so imagine if you have a shitty parent that made you feel like this was your fault
Many years ago when I belonged to the streets, I dealt with a young lady that had two young girls
One of her daughters was like maybe 11 but had a bed wetting issue. She definitely wasn't lazy or did it out of defiance but if memory serves, she had an abnormally weak bladder or something. Before this was found to be the cause, her mom tried several therapists and doctors but kept loving her throughout it all
Never yelled at her or made her feel inadequate. Just kept trying to find solutions and continued to pour into her young daughter.
Eventually I think everything just started working as it should and the girl probably don't even remember that being a thing.
This is an area where as parents, people need to remember kids are just small versions of adults. They come with a bunch of problems as well they are still trying to figure out so imagine if you have a shitty parent that made you feel like this was your fault
Oh I'ma spare that rod but it's not gonna be for any and every thing
The Lonious Monk
Celestial Souljah
I hear you, but when kids are involved, it should be a little different. They don't always have someone that will do right by them.
Valid but stepping in whenever somebody disciplines a kid is a tricky thing
Somebody gonna call the cops every time our mom yoked us up at the clothing store because we playing inside the racks?
The guy deserved it but we also can’t fly into action everytime someone yells at a kid and pops them
Based Dave 96
Stoned is the way of the walk.
smh a these negros taking whitey side like some well trained coons.
Black_Samson
OG
Fuck that guy.
He deserves everything he bout to get.
Impatient ass couldn’t be calm enough to talk shit from the front seat while driving like a real dad.
Nah
This nigga got to fighting with a gotdamn toddler in a parking lot.
Fuck him from end to end with a spiked rusty shishkabob full of squid hooks.
Repeatedly.
Back and forth like Aaliyah say
Back.
Back.
And Forth.
He deserves everything he bout to get.
Impatient ass couldn’t be calm enough to talk shit from the front seat while driving like a real dad.
Nah
This nigga got to fighting with a gotdamn toddler in a parking lot.
Fuck him from end to end with a spiked rusty shishkabob full of squid hooks.
Repeatedly.
Back and forth like Aaliyah say
Back.
Back.
And Forth.
Based Dave 96
Stoned is the way of the walk.
bed wetting at 11 is unacceptable.
Do you listen to music or do you just skim through it
mryounggun
OG
What a fuck nigga. SMH.
Based Dave 96
Stoned is the way of the walk.
let me explain myself...... what i seen in that video is a man who might of had a bad day...... was his yelling a bit much? yes was him hitting him because the kid pissed or shit himself at 3 too much? probably..... but let's be honest as kids we all got a smack in the mouth or two in a public place for cutting up.... that white woman was being extra nosey.... what she want a award from her local NAACP chapter?
mryounggun
OG
No we didn't.
grYmes
The price of a brick goin up…
Eh… I’m not about to beat & yell at three year old to shut up in the middle of a parking lot for doing some three year old type shit. Plus you can just tell this nigga does this on the regular this ain’t a isolated incident. Also… I got the belt a time or two in my day but my dad never did no shit like this especially in public.
Based Dave 96
Stoned is the way of the walk.
i forgot we all didn't have Phillip Drummond as our daddy mr. young water pistol.
mryounggun
OG
That's because you're not a psychopath. SMH. There is no argument to be made that dude's behavior wasn't arrest-worthy...to ME.